Was this a threat or my girlfriend (now ex girlfriend) just being hurt?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my girlfriend recently because there weren't sparks anymore and sometimes she would come out as nagging, too strong and somewhat bossy. I haven't been happy in the relationship for the last couple months.

During our break-up, she angrily said ''You are so gonna regret that. If I can't have you, no one will, no one.''

Was that a threat or her just reacting in anger and being hurt about the break-up?

[Vesuvius87]

All of the above. If you haven't blocked her do so now. If this was a woman posting this, I bet all the posters would be telling her to run, not walk. Do the same. Run, not walk.

[Alwayreckles93]

Wow she's overly obsessed with you. Run go to the police station and file a restraining order. This woman is obsessed with you.

[Asker]

Hopefully it doesn't get that far but I'll watch my back in case. I've blocked her on everything now.

[Alwayreckles93]

Asker I am not trying to be your big sister here but my advice and for your own safety I would recommend you go to the police station and file for a restraining order the Cops will understand and be on your side. My uncle he is a police officer and he seen a lot of situations like yours and believe it or not there a lot of crazy woman on this planet. I am sure the police will understand your situation they've seen it all of way far more worst things. So go to the police station before this crazy woman does the unthinkable to you.

[sirderpsalot123]

Probably just an empty threat. She's just being a brat. Block her on everything and forget about her.

[Asker]

I've blocked her now.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating breakups sure isn't a walk in the park, is it? 😊 Sounds like your ex was feeling a cocktail of emotions—hurt, anger, maybe even a little desperation. That statement could be her expressing the depth of her feelings in a heated moment rather than a real threat. It's like a dramatic scene in a rom-com where emotions run high, and words fly. However, trust your gut. If her words left you feeling uneasy, it's wise to stay alert and communicate boundaries clearly. Here's to finding relationships that keep the spark alive! 🔥❤️

[PsychicBoobs]

I would get a camera on front and back of your home.

[Asker]

Good point

[missindiana93]

How about all 3.

[Asker]

Got it. I have blocked her on everything now.

[Staximus]

That sounds kind of psycho

[Asker]

yeah that was crazy. I felt kind of threatened with that ''If I can't have you, no one will'' line. I've blocked her on everything now.