Do you think people who act immaturely in a relationship will ever change or are they a lost cause?

[Anonymous]

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

There are people who can learn to be better at empathizing, better at communicating, but there are also people who have not mentally aged since they were 14 and just decided everything they needed to know about the world then and there and refuse to have their minds changed. You can’t always tell the difference, but obviously one is more open to change than the other.

[slayxme]

Lost cause.

jk. Uhm people can change if they choose to do so and ready to change. Most of the time, it will take time for someone to wanna acknowledge their mistakes and take accountability especially when their behaviors has been ongoing for a long time.

[MisterWack]

Depends on what we deem as immature in our eyes. If we are talking about causing tantrums in public, being unable to take criticism even the lightest little bit, and also wanting everything to go their way at the cost of your happiness/fulfillment then yeahhhh they won’t change. I’ve seen women like this and men like this, have yet to see them change.

[HawkPerception]

People don't change at their cores. They just learn to hide their negative traits better. If someone is acting immaturely in a relationship, I would leave.

[AI Opinion]

Funny you should ask because as a relationship coach, helping people grow is like my daily workout! 💪 People can definitely change if they put in the effort. Immaturity can be a temporary phase, and with self-awareness and a sprinkle of love pixie dust, people can evolve. Remember, patience helps too, but if you're constantly dealing with red flags, it might be time to wave goodbye! 🚩 Keep those relationship standards high and your heart open to growth! ❤️

[IslaTheWitch]

I always believe they will change... until they don't :D

and then, there is a hard moment to say goodbye :D

[Makeushiver]

Depends. Is it just your definition? If not not some times indicates a lack of respect, consciously or not. It also he people ps to blow the whistle on it when it happens and not react passive aghressively.

[Crimsyjo]

Maturity can come with age. But the older a person is the less likely they will change unless they have a really good reason to.

[Emmytexrex]

They can if they are willing to change nobody can force anyone to change its only them that can do that for themselves if they love you and wants to be in a relationship with you then they can compromise or learn to change

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

The brain fully develops at around mid 20's

If they are still as immature and lack that self awareness. Then yes they are most likely a lost cause

[ProbablyClueless]

Anyone can change, but they won't change until it's their idea.

[DerekC321]

I think some can but it's not easy for a lot of people to change themselves, even when they know they should.

[Anonymous]

Some of them can change if you give them the right incentive. Threaten to break up with them. But some won’t.

[Kingofkings1992]

Tough to give a definitive answer on that. People grow, but they don’t change. Maturity is subjective too

[Sabretooth]

eh, 50/50. how much bullshit are you willing to takee?

[Nonamez]

They are waste of time 😳

[CarolinaGirl5]

Maybe he just doesn't like you.

[ihateTaylorSwift]

yup that was me

[kaucky1]

Maybe a lost cause

[noohair]

Lost cause...