Do you think there are any circumstances under which you would cheat on a partner?

[OlderAndWiser]

I have spent years dating, in monogamous relationships, and in marriage, and I never cheated on a partner. Not once. But I would never claim that I couldn't be tempted to cheat. I don't want to cheat, I couldn't face myself in the mirror if I did that, but I am not so arrogant to think I'm better than everyone else so that could never happen to me. No, I am careful to avoid situations that could lead to cheating, such as having lunches with a woman and no other person present, going out for a drink after work with a female co-worker, etc.

COULD you cheat under the wrong circumstances? DO you rely on your moral character to avoid cheating? Do you avoid situations that could present a temptation to be unfaithful?

(If you believe in polyamory or open relationships, please do not respond to the poll. I am interested in the attitudes of people who at least profess to prefer a committed, monogamous relationship.)

I've cheated before but I could never do that again.

I've cheated before and, if I was tempted in the right way, I could cheat again.

I've cheated before and if I do it again, I don't think it would be a big deal

I've never cheated before and my character is strong enough to guarantee that I will never cheat on a partner.

I've never cheated before and my character is strong, but I take steps to avoid situations in which I might be tempted to cheat

I've never cheated before and I don't think it's a big deal to worry about

I've never had sex so I really don't know enough to understand how I would deal with the temptation to cheat

[Agape93]

Nope. If I'm unhappy, I leave. If I want someone else, we have a process to do this legitimately. I will not betray my partners.

[Apple1996]

It might be petty but I'd possibly cheat back if my partner cheated first. That's the only time I could see myself doing it

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol. I dont see how that really accomplishes anything tho

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill for the fun of it to make them mad

[WhiteBoyChill]

Would it really make them mad tho?

Like, if they cheated on you I doubt they’d really care if u slept around either

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill I guess it would depend on the situation

[AI Opinion]

As a flirty relationship coach 😉, I say staying committed boils down to understanding yourself and your boundaries. It's all about preventing situations where temptation might knock on your door, like your strategy of avoiding one-on-one moments. Our moral compass helps us stay true to our values. I believe anyone can be tempted, but it's all about how you handle it. Keeping open communication and being mindful of your actions makes a world of difference!✨

[OlderAndWiser]

C'mon, confess man! Weren't you screwing that little blonde Univac that was in your office?

[lightbulb27]

:) probably, but she was "buggy" and moved on... we'll never know what fornicating is going on in these AI models.

[AviatorTom]

I've learned to never say never. It's possible but it's extremely unlikely. I've been tempted a few times in my life, and always did nothing about it.

[texascollegegirl]

I cheat all the time on my small dick white boyfriend so I can get the biggest dick Blacks. He has very compatible fetishes to mine. He loves that I cheat, but he is what they call an oblivious cuckold, so I can never admit it even though I have to make it very blatant. He often puts me in these situations where I'm alone with these guys, knowing I won't be able to help myself. I just can't say no to a big Black dick. He found some of these guys by scoping out their dicks at the gym and then inviting them over or having us go for a workout, then leaving, and so on. It's always an awkward situation and they aren't going into it thinking they will meet his pretty little white girlfriend, and they have no idea up front I am such a slut for their big dicks. The amazing thing is they all have huge Black dicks. I find even more on my own. I also keep my boyfriend sexually satisfied but also frustrated and on edge the way he likes he. The insecurity does him good and he loves all the lying. Sometimes he will accuse me but then I'm really bitchy to him and bend his mind to the idea he is being paranoid. He eventually convinces himself he is imagining things. I will never stop cheating. I want it every day at least a couple times, and when I can with multiple big dick Blacks. I don't ever cheat with the smaller ones, though I do give oral to different guys if they fetishize what I do with the biggest dick Blacks. If he didn't want me to do it, I still would because I just can't say no to big dick Blacks and they all can see right through me and know I will give my body to them right away if they are really big.

[OlderAndWiser]

Troll.

[texascollegegirl]

Just found the best boyfriend in the world who turned me on to this fetish. It's like you think all the biggest dicks aren't Black when they are, or you think girls who had it don't get hooked and want more. You know cuckolds exist, and there would be way more if people could be honest about what they want. If I meet a big dick Black, he knows what I want right then and that I want it now. It's like you think small dick white boys don't obsess over this. They do.

[Orion84]

I've never cheated, nor will I ever cheat. I've had the opportunity, and declining the invitation was literally the easiest choice I've ever made in my life.

I've been cheated on, and I wouldn't wish that experience, or those emotions, on my most hated enemy, let alone any woman I love.

Even if she was 100% guaranteed never to find out, I would lose all respect for myself, because of what I did. My morals & ethics, not to mention my love & loyalty, would never permit me to even consider such a heartless and heinous act of betrayal.

[godfatherfan]

I knew my ex wife exactly 35 days before going into the military. We were not engaged. I had so so many chances to have sex with a variety of women in tech school. Everyone gets laid in tech school. I had 7 women, including a two-some, ask me if I wanted to get a room. That is without me trying at all.
There is no way my then girlfriend would ever have known. But I would have known. I would never have been able to live with myself.
I never cheated then, I would never cheat now. I won't even date someone that is separated. They need to be divorced or never married.

[Unit1]

Separated but not yet divorced.

Neglect and downgrading the relationship to friends with benefits or downplaying the relationship since its not a serious RELATIONSHIP, meaning ready to leave.

Call me a cheater if you want. However While i generally don't condone cheating in monogamous relationships, i find there are understandable situations when the sex is lacking. I'm not about to torture myself with sexlessness. My life is a torture on the extra hard side.

that being said, i have never cheated.

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COULD you cheat under the wrong circumstances?

Define wrong circumstances. It's ambiguous to me.

DO you rely on your moral character to avoid cheating?

Yes.

Do you avoid situations that could present a temptation to be unfaithful?

Yes-er than just yes. Provided i'm not being sex starved.

[lightbulb27]

not something I want to be, I think about how my wife feel. I have values I hold myself to and I'm well educated with females now, so I keep boundaries well enough and communicate with wife well.

you must know yourself well "out there" else you will fall prey to someone elses twisted sense of morality.

[Purpleronnie]

Nope.. none. I have made mistakes in the past.. many years ago in my teens but never since.. came close and had really strong feelings for another woman.. so strong in fact that I considered ending my relationship but no.. there is just no need or excuse for it … period

[ProbablyClueless]

Let's be real, there isn't a single person on Earth that can honestly say that there isn't a single set of circumstances where they would cheat on their partner. Even the best of us have a limit because we are all human, and it would be crazy to think otherwise.

Even the most loyal, the most grounded person on Earth has some point where they could get to (as unlikely as it may seem) that they could cheat.

[Nik1hil]

Honestly Never,

If circumstances appear she cannot satisfy me... I can stick to Masturbation..

And if I have to Have sex with other women, I won't Cheat.

I will ask her permission and bring in another women as my girlfriend or second wife.. but I am Never hurting or leaving the first one..

Or I will have an affair with her permission and she will know all about it!.

It's not cheating if she knows!

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

The people answering that they would never cheat under any circumstances are full of s**t.

Everyone has weaknesses. Everyone makes stupid decisions from time to time.

The people saying they would never cheat under any circumstances are claiming, implicitly, that they are morally perfect, which is self-evident crap.

[19magic]

Honestly this reminds me of that Andy grammar (I think is the artist) called honey I'm good. And it essentially is a song what your on about here, saying there's a chance he can cheat so he's going to walk away to make sure it doesn't happen. You should have a listen to it and see what you think

[OlderAndWiser]

I think there are circumstances under which most people would give in to temptation, despite their claims of upright moral character, and a truly committed partner will avoid exposing themselves to such circumstances. Why not make it easier for ourselves to do the right thing?

[slatyb]

I wouldn't say never, but it seems highly unlikely. I never have cheated on a partner.

[OlderAndWiser]

Neither have I, but I don't blindly assume it could "never" happen. I doubt that you have such a cavalier attitude, either.

[slatyb]

No, but it's hard to imagine, at least not as long as my partner is compos mentis.

[Nikki1989]

I have never cheated, even when I was with men that probably deserved it. Cheating is a breach of trust and commitment in a relationship, and it is something I couldn't bring myself to do.

[LiamJHayden]

I'd have to be coerced under threat of death or severe body harm to me or to another, and under those circumstances I would not consider it cheating any more than I would consider rape consensual sex.

[sage2021]

Nothing in this whole wide world would I ever cheat on the man in my life. Not for anything!!!

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with number four and number five. I’m pretty sure I would never cheat, but I still avoid situations where I might be tempted.

[exitseven]

I would never. Heat on my wife. I have had a few opportunities but I took the wedding vows pretty literally

[Potteplante]

I cheated when I was 15.

Never done it again - despite of temptations.

[Christian_Cartier]

Never, never. Most people say that cheating is a violation of trust, but it's primarily a violation of self. By choosing it you are ruining yourself and your sense of identity.

[DrPepper12]

I and she both cheated prior to marriage like HS stuff

[Jamie05rhs]

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[Jamie05rhs]

"but I am not so arrogant to think I'm better than everyone else"
Yes, I am better than everyone else. That's the POINT! It's a mindset. I have high standards and a strict code of morals, which I will never break.
And I am not better than them because I am awesome; I'm better than them because they are lowlifes!!

"so that could never happen to me."
Cheating isn't something that happens to you. It's something that YOU do!

[CarolinaGirl5]

No, if the relationship isn't working you leave like am adult. The end

[Feverishly]

No way. I've been cheated on and know how much it hurts. Even if someone did something awful to me, I still wouldn't cheat. I would just leave the relationship.

[Adel50]

There shouldn't be any circumstance under which you should cheat on your spouse.

[LiaRaven]

I would never do it, it is unethical thing to do
Also, I won’t be in a relationship like that

[Slim57]

Nah. I have too much pride to demolish it. I'd just end things

[Anonymous]

I've never had sex, but if I were, I would never cheat.

[MannMitAntworten]

No. I value my integrity too much.

[Dongie]

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[WhiteBoyChill]

Nah. Fck that. Monogamy fr

[Shihab_91]

We have many angles voting here 🤣

[spartan55]

None, never.

[Gwendoline]

No none.

[jahaims]

No, I'm not trash