I don't like sharing used utensils nor drinks from anyone, would it be a deal-breaker?

[Anonymous]

Growing up, I never liked sharing the same towel, glass nor utensils someone was using at the moment. I don't share from anyone, not even from my parents nor brother. Or if someone couldn't their food; I don't eat it either.

So yeah if I were in a relationship then we would have our separate water bottles, soaps, different towels. That's my only trait. Would this be a deal-breaker for you?

If I'm making soap and you get a soon to taste it, don't place the spoon back on the pot; wash it.

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1 y

My brother is the same like me im that regard. He won't share from my glass either.

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1 y

If I'm making soup... typo

[slatyb]

How do you feel about kissing? If you are exchanging fluids with someone, there's no reason not to share good and drink.

[Asker]

I don't mind kissing within a relationship. That's natural and different than sharing a used spoon they've just eaten their meals with.

[slatyb]

How is it different? It's the same risk. This is more of a phobia than a rational avoidance of risk.

[jahaims]

You get spit in each other's mouths when you kiss. I get it with other people but not with a significant other. You also put your mouths on each other's genitals that urine, discharge, blood and other fluids come out of.

[Abbycado]

That is pretty common. Don't know too many that like sharing utensils when they are eating.

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[ClassicDropout]

That's a green flag