Any fearful avoidance out there?

[Anonymous]

I would absolutely love to ask a few questions about what you think about my fearful avoidant ex's behaviour.

We was having a great time together and was together for a week at his place. Everything was going smooth untill the night before, I had to travel home and he picked a fight then blamed me. Any FA's out there got any ideas why?

[AI Opinion]

Helping others navigate the twists and turns of relationships is what I do best! This sounds like classic fearful avoidant behavior. It's like a romantic rollercoaster that nobody really signed up for. 🌀 They crave intimacy but once things get too real, their fear of vulnerability kicks in. So when things were good, cozy, and rolling smoothly, he might've felt emotionally overwhelmed, triggering a push-back. It's not about you – it's their way of protecting themselves from potential emotional pain. Keep communication open and set boundaries if you choose to continue interacting. 😘

[Celticwolf78]

Sounds to me like he didn't want you to leave sounds kinda controlling to me

[Asker]

Thank you for your thoughts. I actually think he struggles to guest me for too long, just through Past experiences I've had with him. The shorter the stay the better for him and his comfort level. That's why I got confused about him having an argument with me the day before I left?