What qualities/traits do you find the most attractive in men/women?

[caitycat21]

Qualities can be both physical or emotional/etc, just please refrain from being overly lewd ⚠️

I think one of the most important qualities I admire and find attractive in a man is if he’s capable of following through with the commitments he makes to others and himself, it’s one thing for a man to talk about doing something but if he can’t actually follow through that shows he’s someone that you can rely on and trust !

I also find ambition to be very attractive, if a man has good ambition it’s usually a good quality in my opinion as opposed to a man with little ambition that’s okay with doing nothing with his life.

In terms of physical features, I tend to find men with beards/mustaches/any type of well groomed facial hair honestly is very attractive to me lol, I’m not entirely sure why. Just enjoy the look !

[ohsheeT]

I like a girl that is quiet shy kind of inverted but when confronted our challenged isn't afraid to step out of that shell still being calm collected using her words to say what she has to say that she won't put up with it.

I also let girls that don't create drama and don't think that they're better than everybody else and they like to smile and they're happy

They're confident they know who they are their wise

I also like girls that can look into somebody's eyes and communicate without saying one word
And the girl that can see that somebody needs a helping hand and should put hers out there just to pick that person up because she's capable of doing it and she wants to do it not because she has to do it I guess that goes back to having a good heart a good person within

And I guess somebody that would put up with me lol
I help a lot of people
And many times I'm in the right place at the right time kind of sort of
Because there's many strangers that I run into or I meet through a friend that needs help in one way or the other and for some reason I either have the time in that moment or I have what they need in that moment

Or I can fix whatever it is they need in that moment
Or I have access to whatever they need anyway I put myself in a lot of positions by doing so but when you commit you have to commit

And even though I feel that it holds me back sometimes it's still me I mean if I couldn't do that for somebody it's just I wouldn't be happy

I think for me one of the most important things is somebody that is happy that has a genuine smile at all times and somebody that can communicate with their eyes without one word I think that's very beautiful thing and somebody that can feel stuff feel things deep and can just feel energy rushing through their body when touched in a passionate way

[HawkPerception]

Physically and ideally... I'd say petite, slim, and fit with long flowy hair, fair skinned or tan skinned. Looks aren't the MOST important and I can overlook it. As long as they have the personality I look for and don't let themselves go using all the excuses that they can't workout in the world, I'm okay with it.

In terms of personality, I find I have chemistry with girls that are very feminine and have similar views, interests, visions of what they want their future to look like, sense of humor, sexual compatibility, etc.

[IslaTheWitch]

definitely independent smartasses with a healthy confidence and witty humor :D

[AI Opinion]

Confidence and humor are two irresistible traits that can make anyone stand out! The ability to genuinely laugh and enjoy life's twists and turns is magnetic. While ambition and responsibility definitely rank high on the attraction scale, a dash of fun doesn't hurt, right? As for physical features, a killer smile and a twinkle of mischief in their eyes can sometimes speak volumes. But hey, each to their own! Keep that heart open and enjoy the adventure of connection! 😉

[Cormac995]

I like clingy and very physically affectionate girls. I also kind of like them to be a little bit possessive not enough to cross boundaries but a little bit does make me feel wanted and needed which is a validating and rewarding feeling at least for me. I also want her to be funny and smart ideally actually smarter than me because I like learning new things and I feel like intelligent partners are more likely to push you on in healthy ways instead of toxic ones. Basically, I want a partner that helps me grow as a person and learn new things. Obviously, it would be nice if she was pretty too but I'm not very picky about looks within reason and I'm more concerned with getting a real connection and meaningful affection.

[mstbooblover]

Qualities and traits I appreciate in a woman is first of all her being a real woman ! Otherwise kindness, being intelligent and naughty at the same time, not afraid of showing herself as she is, straight forward, honest, open minded, not afraid or ashamed of her own natural features; no, or as little make up and parfume as possible.

Although not to be despised, physical beauty in the traditional way is not at all a priority. A woman can be extremely attractive for many mysterious reasons depending on mental, emotional and physical compatibility.

[Makeushiver]

damn I just noticed the request for nothing lewd. Are you sure you don't have that backwords and I'll endow you with every dick pick I have okay.

[Graptemys79]

Well, two of the physical ones are in that girl in the picture above- a pretty smile and cute dimples! I also need someone I can have good conversations with.

[ilistengood]

So it be a mythical creature you seek, grins, kidding. ill agree with the drama free part

[RageBabe]

That he cares so deeply.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Wit and wits

[eagle1951]

great hair and smile