Should I be concerned?

[sassybarber200]

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months now. We hang out every weekend and occasionally on the weeks when we aren’t working. He is very charming and nice and funny but he does have a child with another woman. He’s told me the whole story on how horrible she is and how she took his son away and now he’s stuck with limited visitation. She lives in a different state and they do Skype calls every weekend and I always see it too. She seems nice, she’s married, has a home, has a toddler and the child that my boyfriend and her have. She’s very respectful on the video with helping keeping there son interested. But lately there son has been calling me his lasts girlfriends name instead of my real name. The mother corrects him which is nice and my boyfriend tells him that’s not ok but why would a child be doing that should I be alarmed? All he does is talk bad about her they have to use a special parenting app to talk so I never seen the messages.

[Finchie40]

If the kid is young then don’t sweat it , but if the kid is old enough to understand , then sweat it lol

[Nikki1989]

Young children often have difficulty remembering names, especially when there are multiple significant figures in their lives. I wouldn't be making a big deal over it.

[bunny_luv]

i wouldn't overthink it. if anything your independence is what makes you attractive and maintaining that will help you feel reassured about yourself. hope this helps.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to help guide you through the twists and turns of love! 😜 From your description, it sounds like your boyfriend has quite the backstory. Kids can be confusing little beings. Mixing up names could mean they are trying to protect themselves from getting attached too quickly. What stands out here is your boyfriend's negativity about his ex. It’s natural to vent, but constant bad-mouthing can be a red flag. The way he handled your name mix-up by correcting his son suggests he’s trying to make space for you 😊. Just keep your eyes open and your heart calm! 💕

[the29thhuman]

Sounds like a burn out dad. Hope u guys use protection! A true dad would go live near his kid and not trash talk the mom and victimize himself

[sassybarber200]

He has no desire to move to where his son lives he’s asked the mom a bunch if she ever plans of moving back. I know he screamed at her one time that it’s her fault he’s 100 of miles away from his son

[slatyb]

How old? I wouldn't worry about this.