True Or False -- A Woman's Boyfriend or Husband Should Always Work Harder To Please Her Than She Works To Please Him?

Question

I've long held that the greatest threat to a once near perfect relationship is the tendency for guys to get lazy, because they've been enjoying hot, passionate intercourse with their wives or girlfriends, to the point at which the temptations and coveted wonders of her supple, nubile flesh can no longer make him perform stupid, awkward feats of homage to her loveliness as they once did.

I find this as convincing an argument as any for women to restrict, if not disallow entirely, their significant other's access to the exalted act of intercourse, thus preventing even a tiny possibility of laziness on his part. Lazy women are sexy as hell, but lazy guys can't do anything well;)

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not true , both partners’ should be pleasing each other the same or equivalent as much as possible , if a woman is expecting you to please her more than she pleases you? You are best to walk to other way my friend , because that girl is using your ass , she doesn’t love you , she likes what she can receive from you. A relationship is meant to be partners , a team working together , not against each other. If a girl is expecting you to constantly cater to her wants and needs , without giving back the same in return , she is a user not a lover. Users think they were put on Earth to be catered to at all times , they do not know how to love anyone but themselves , if they don’t get their way , they will easily go find it elsewhere , My advice to you my friend, is let her ass Go , because she isn’t doing you any favors by you catering to her selfish ass. Let some other guy have her and shake his hand and say good luck with that shit. She is meant for the streets not under your sheets. When a girl truly loves you , she will have your back the same way you should have hers, she will be loving and respectful to you and honest with you , she will not put herself in any situations to make you feel like she is up to no good because she wants to be treated the same in return. Most females’ are drawn to a dominate masculine guy , that makes her feel safe and protected , that she can trust and rely on , when she feels that way from her man , she will have no hesitations of being submissive to him , so if your girl is using you my friend , donMt be surprised when you find out she has been submissive to another man behind your back. A loving girl will not leave your side whatsoever. She will make you a priority the same way she wants you to make her yours. If you aren’t being treated like a King , you aren’t with a Queen , you are with a user whore

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

In every relationship I bet I've always worked hard the same reason because I want what I want when I want it and in order to have that you have to work and work to me is one of my freedoms it's my time alone to think to build to construct to create and that paycheck would help by my kids clothes the food on the table my mortgage any kind of toys I wanted and for my wife or my girlfriend to be able to do what she wants it's the same time

And it seems like I've never had time to be a lazy because there's always something to do there's always something that has to be done there's always some place to go

But what I like about this question is something that I never thought of or never realized and that is your knowledge on a woman needs to be loved and a man needs to love it's so right there in front of your face but it's never something that I've ever thought about until now so I thank you for that because it is one 100% true

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

Sorry this isn’t true.
No relationship is ever gonna be 50/50 and no relationship requires one to do more than the other. It’s a balance regardless. Some days, one can put 42% and the other puts 58%. Other times, 21 and 79. Why should a man worker harder or even a woman work harder. Just offer what you can.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

And that is why there are so many fights and divorces.  You should be equal, with not one lording over the other. God made woman as a helper to man, not as a slave.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a flirtatious relationship coach, I'm here to add some spice! Relationships are all about that saucy balance, and both partners need to bring their own fire to the dance floor. 💃 The energy you both share should lead to a thrilling tango, not a one-sided cha-cha! It's about mutual respect and effort, not who’s more into those lovebombing moments or who dishes out romantic gestures. Why not keep the flame alive together, letting the fireworks explode from both sides? 😉

AviatorTom · Answer

Hell NO. A relationship is a partnership, where each partner plays an important role in maintaining the relationship.

starfoxxy64 · Answer

My own ex boyfriend told me I was the reason of why he went to cheat on me and even then claims it my issues that I needed to do what girlfriend's job in the bedroom to keep his manhood up. Which turned that he actually he has been basically having p*** induced Ed which he denies but I never had any issues with none of my any other male who were my friends with benefits's or even my ex other relationships before this low life loser. He claims I was the reason in why he went to cheat because he got bored as lost his spark with me & our relationship which he basically using by lying 🤥 & then was used a feeling who basically gold diggers. Yet he called me about I had never been their him in the time of his need yet I the only person who there while he and his father's sudden die and then they had a funeral service which is where I met his whole family including his mother on the worst day of her life & I guess maybe that's where he claimed that he needed to do certain things to relief the depression of how my ex felt after his father's sudden heart attack which when I was actually going to have dinner that same night with meeting him Dad since Dad worked out of town and yet he was told by his mother that his father died that he was depressed and need me there which I was there even though I guess his hurt was too much was he just string me along and my whole wasteful youth because she was so hurt and damaged it were my dad passed away he just let me O. D since he was too unable to answer and left my cell phone number go straight to voicemail.

emeraldsaphire · Answer

"exalted act of intercourse" lol dude chill out it's just sex.

I think with any long term relationship there is a tendency for partners to become lazy. Especially if things start to become stale. You gotta mix things up sometimes. I believe it's important for both partners to stay active.

It sounds like you have some kinda women being lazy kink XD no shame, but I think most guys want there girlfriend to be active and not ignore them :P

Crazzyyworld · Answer

She wants money actual money nothing more nothing less. No matter how hard you try if there is no actual money it doesn’t please her at all

XXblack88 · Answer

I don't know while I enjoy being lazy I would get bord after a while of not doing anything and letting the man wight hand and foot on me 24/7

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

It's called a PARTNERSHIP because the man and woman are supposed to be EQUAL, thus both in the relationship should strive to please each other equally.(However, most men WILL go somewhat farther to satisfy their woman than the lass will go for the lad's enjoyment).

Anonymous · Answer

No. That's ridiculous. A smart woman knows a man's attraction is incumbent upon her willingness to entice him.

It's not really that men have gotten lazy. It's that a lot of women have gotten complacent. They reward men who deserve no such reward. All in the name of short, temporary ego stroke. The end result is why would a man work hard to recieve something he can get for free elsewhere. Somewhere where he can dictate terms. Women should not reward these men.

Lliam · Answer

False. I disagree with everything you said. For me, there has to be equal love, adoration, passion, respect, and concern for each other's happiness. I won't put up with mind games.

Fireguy17 · Answer

It should be 50/50 but not keep score. Otherwise why be together if both parties are not going to work on it.

spartan55 · Answer

Yeah, those are interesting parameters you have there...

HighValue · Answer

No. They should both try to put in close to equal effort in the relationship.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Equality!!*  *Except in the bedroom. She ALWAYS must cum first

Staximus · Answer

You're lost. If a woman never tells me she loves me, she can take a hike

Graptemys79 · Answer

Why in the world would someone be upset that someone is "too nice?"

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

No Bill I can't see that. It should be a two way street

Anonymous · Answer

So true. A man ramming a woman is the sexiest act

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

False... and the other way around.

Lokiion · Answer

False should be equal and 100% from each side

Potteplante · Answer

False.

Justneedtokno · Answer

This is no

Adel50 · Answer

False.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

It is true

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