Is it okay to use your partner’s vulnerability to feel closer to them?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[rosemilk]

that sounds a bit problematic to me... why are you not feeling the closeness without their vulnerability?

[HawkPerception]

I ask these questions not for myself, but to just see others opinions 😊

[thegreenyogi]

It depends on the context and how it is used at least for me personally.

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you!

[HawkPerception]

No need to thank me for giving ya MHO haha. I just give it to the people I agree with most 😊

[thegreenyogi]

Okay. I'm just a very polite person. 🤗

[Graptemys79]

It's great to feel closer, but I don't think you should use anybody in any way.

[Dongie]

Yes, as it's your reaction to their needs.