Is it wrong for a woman to share her feelings with her partner?

[Anonymous]

So today, we got a huge fight.. actually it’s not a fight like FIGHT… i text her like “I’m tired of everything, I’m tired of us, my surroundings, my family.. I’m tired babe” after like a few hours she replies with “what’s wrong? What’s do you want?”. And then I replied with “None, nvm” then blocked her.. it’s because i feel like she doesn’t want me to feel like that.. and I feel like she judged me on how i feel.. she was mad because she thought that I complained about our relationship where she doesn’t give me enough attention.. but al i just want to say is, i want her to listen.. like i wanted to tell her that I’ve been depressed for like a month.. i sleep 5/6 in the morning just because I overthink, insecurity all over my head and the loneliness that i felt.. i feel sick.. so I don't know how to tell her.. I don't know if i can talk to her.. now she blocked me in all social media.. she doesn’t want to see and she even want us to break up.. I don't know what to do😔

I should say sorry

Let it be

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It’s not wrong to share you feelings with your partner, you should always be able to. You shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells and hide your feelings and emotions around your partner, otherwise, there’s no point in being together.


As for your actions, it was very immature. You could have just communicated it that you don’t feel like you can tell her your emotions, that you feel like she is judging, etc etc. Instead, you blocked her… Very childish move, which can understandably make someone mad.


If you want to work things out with your partner, COMMUNICATE! If your partner doesn’t listen, then shame on them, and move on with your life. Don’t waste time on someone who doesn’t listen or care about you and your feelings. Communication is literally the root of a relationship. If there isn’t healthy communication, the relationship will fail. Thus, your situation is at its breaking point because of the lack of communication.


I suggest you try and get a hold of your partner. Apologize for blocking, tell her that you two need to talk, and sit down and communicate with her how you’re feeling, tell her that you want to fix the relationship (if you do). Tell her that she needs to listen to you when you talk about these things.

[Asker]

Thank you so much.. Yea, I realize and i admit that.. it was childish and immature 😔 I shouldn’t be like that with her.. you’re right

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I get it though, emotions takeover and it’s an impulse decision. We all do it sometimes. It was a reaction from your built up stress and sadness, so I don’t blame you. You just have to take accountability for it, explain to her that situation and then you can talk about it. Best of luck❤️

[Asker]

I don't know if she want us anymore

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I guess it’s time to just focus on yourselves. That would be the best option.

[Asker]

Sad💧

[JanJan3838]

I’m sorry sweetie, let it go do now and get your thoughts together. Give everyone a chance to calm down and think about what they really wan, the I would sit down and talk with her and tell how you. Feel and what your needs are.

[JanJan3838]

P. S. here to chat if you need too

[Asker]

But why she should be mad about it?

[JanJan3838]

I’m sure she is confused since she doesn’t know everything that is going on with you, and she might also be a little self with her feelings, after it calms down and you talk hopefully that will be better.

[Asker]

Thanks, i hope so🙏🏻

[JanJan3838]

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[JanJan3838]

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[Anonymous]

Yeah, you fucked up here. You did to your partner what women do to men all the time. You said a bunch of stuff that made it clear you thought there were serious problems in your relationship, and then when asked what is wrong and what can she do, you said "nothing, never mind" and then blocked her. Then you complain here that she doesn't listen.

Do you not see what is wrong with that, and why she would be put off by it? You're a basket case but you won't allow her to try to help fix it. As a guy I can tell you that is SUPER frustrating.

Yes, you owe her a sincere and contrite apology and you need to communicate with her, obviously.

[Asker]

I talk to her but.. she dont want to talk to me

[Opinion Owner]

Give her time. You no doubt pissed her off by saying you are tired of her, telling her never mind when she asked what was wrong, and then blocking her. I would be pissed off too and it would take some time before I was willing to talk.

Just send her a text telling her you know you fucked up, you're very sorry and you want to talk when she's ready to.

Good luck.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO. I hope you are able to work things out with her.

[Chris_Chambers0010]

Sometimes people aren't emotionally compatible. You wanted her to listen to your issues and give support, but she probably felt like you were being too negative and bringing her down. It's difficult when two people aren't getting what they want in a relationship.

[Asker]

Hmm.. you’re right, maybe we just not for each other..

[Chris_Chambers0010]

It's possible.
Some people just aren't supportive in that way, and she will see you as annoying basically.
It's complicated, but you really may not be a good match. Good luck with whatever you decide.

[bbear07]

if she truly want to be with you, she'll come around and stop avoiding you. Then it would be a good time to apologize. But if she doesn't come around, then maybe you should try to move on:) easier said than done, I know. Remember tho, you don't need a partner to give you your worth. You are an amazing person w/ or w/out her.

[Asker]

Thank you🥺

[Xhuy_006]

No not all all. You might have to go to couples therapy to clear the waters because this is a part of the relationship where neither of you have been. It's okay to ask for help. Sometimes it takes someone to present you the right questions to get to the right answers.

[Screenwriter]

Doesn't sound like this is the person for you. You clearly CANNOT talk to her since she's blocked you. I'd say she's already broken up with you. Think you have to work out your depression and feelings with a therapist. You need to straighten out yourself before you embark on a relationship with someone. Good luck.

[SnakeBoop]

if you can't talk to your partner about your relationship and feelings, thats a sign to end the relationship.

[Asker]

Hmm.. i wanted to fix it but she said fix yourself

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

You say you want her to listen, but when she actually tries to understand your feelings, you get cold feet and block her altogether. Whatever you're seeing in her response is just a mirror to your own psyche, my friend. Oh and having those talks over text is bad idea coz so much of the nonverbal meanings are lost. Get face to face and explain how you're feeling, and while you're at it, apologise for blocking her and projecting your fears onto her.

[Asker]

She doesn’t want to meet me

[Asker]

Do not*

[IMuser]

Even if they are in loves, HUMANS CANNOT READ MINDS!!

If they could, families would be able to solve their children who commit suicide. Even if people who have blood relations cannot read each other, why do you think your girl can?

[yolandra]

She has to apologize to you. It's both of your faults anyway so both of you just need to apologize to each other and let it go

[innerman]

you rushed to block her without giving her a chance to listen or say something


meet her physically... maybe over coffee, talk about your relationship. If she’s understanding... this will even help u get closer

[SignedAutographs]

It's not wrong, however, what she does with those, is another

For example, you could "like something you're not supposed to". You're allowed to do that but, if you then go and do something ILLEGAL with them, that that's where those feelings can become a problem

[Tjw78]

I feel like it's wrong to not share your feelings with your partner. You want to be with someone you understand and someone who understands you, they can't understand how you feel about things unless you tell them.

[Anonymous]

no one should have feelings in my opinion, boy or girl, feelings are stupid

[Asker]

Well, if we were robots

[Opinion Owner]

everyone is born with emotions, i know were human, but the difference between then intelligent and the stupid is the intelligent know how to turn them off and decide to turn them off... the stupid keep them switched on

[Opinion Owner]

what are feelings good for? how do they help you? all it did was make me feeling angry all the time and fighting each other, how is being angry all the time a good feeling? better to live without feelings

[TrillXHippy]

What’s the last word in your question?

[In_Trance]

not wrong

[Asker]

Thanks

[StrawberryShake]

What the...

[Anonymous]

fucking drama queens

[Opinion Owner]

both of you's get off your asses and get a job and get a life and work and make money and go out and enjoy life a little then you wouldn't have time for this asinine endless drama shit fest

[Opinion Owner]

all i heard in that incoherent rambling was blah blah blah i'm a dramatic bitch

[Asker]

I’ll do, Thank you🙏🏻

[JesseJayNeak]

You better apologize