Hiding my onlyfans account from my significant others?

[Anonymous]

Im addicted to Only fans and content creating but I don’t want the men I’m involved with to know what I do on the side…. I truly crave that validation and sometimes it’s not enough from one person

[Screenwriter]

Here's the serious issue you reveal in your statement: "I'm ADDICTED... I CRAVE VALIDATION... IT's NOT ENOUGH FROM ONE PERSON..."

It doesn't matter what kind of addiction you have, addiction of any kind, especially sexual addiction, is a serious problem.

The fact that you feel validation: "the feeling that other people approve of and accept you, or something that gives you this feeling" from strangers who are paying to see you as a sexual object is also mentally unhealthy.:

I have no idea how or why you've gotten to this place. But I support your finding a way out of this addiciton. If you feel the need to HIDE it, then on some level you know it's not acceptable and it IS unhealthy.

Talk to your primary care doctor about finding a therapist who handles sexual addiciton, so you won't have to hide something you clearly feel shame about and that will interfere with your regular life. Good luck.

[PeachyPie93]

Dump him because he deserves better. Then get some therapy so maybe you wouldn't need other guys validation by being a webcam slut.

[Asker]

Calling me a slut turns me on…

I don’t need a man.. he probably does deserve better. I’m not a lover girl

[PeachyPie93]

You are defo a guy..

[Asker]

I’ll take that as a compliment. Just know I’d never let a man hurt me again and I enjoy basking in my masculine feminine energy

I’m in control

[PeachyPie93]

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I won't let others hurt me so I will hurt others instead.. Get help you clearly are not in control lol

[Asker]

Or you can stop being a judgmental cunt and go away?

[PeachyPie93]

I could but I love making fun of sluts :D

[Asker]

As if a slut cares 🥱 get a hobby.

[PeachyPie93]

I am handing out good advice as well, if only people would listen..

[Asker]

I have a therapist and psychiatrist… sometimes you make the best out of the life you’re dealt with. I like what I do

[PeachyPie93]

Then why are you hiding it?

[Asker]

Because I still have a reputation not because I’m ashamed

My job won’t allow it

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah that makes sense but why hide it from the guy you are dating? You shouldn't go into relationships hiding shit, it's not fair to the other person.

[Asker]

Well idk… hopefully they understand. It’s just attention nothing more… Ilol explain that I need more than their attention

[Asker]

I can understand if they don’t want that but that’s what I want

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah but then you should let them know so they can have a fair assessment in regards to dating you or not.

[Finchie40]

You should worry about your significant others’ finding out about each other instead of worrying about Only Fans

[Stevepro68]

Well if you really care about someone and they care about you. Think they would be into it.

[AI Opinion]

You're in quite the intriguing situation, aren't you? 😏 Balancing different sides of your life can be a spicy juggling act! It's important to think about why you're seeking validation and how it affects your relationships. Honesty and communication are key, and keeping secrets could be a red flag.

If this makes you happy, remember your worth isn't tied to others' opinions. But, darling, if you think there's a chance for complications with your significant others finding out, it might be worth considering what brings you fulfillment long-term. Good luck, and keep glowing! 🌟

[Jakefromstatefarm6]

Can they find it from searching your name, because if they can. Then they will find it

[Asker]

No they can’t duh

[Jj1994]

So you’re a man?

[Asker]

No don’t know where you read that

[pumpseedinmyholes]

Good girl

[Asker]

☺️☺️☺️

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Jmmmfi4]

Oh boy