Why do some people lovebomb too much if they're going to then break-up?

[Marblesxoxo]

For instance, if someone says ''I love you so much, I can't imagine my life without you'' but then they break-up over an argument or something trivial then their words meant nothing.

They went from ''I can't imagine my life without you'' to ''it's over''. That's a radical change (that's like getting praised in your job one day and the next day getting fired) and they just contradicted themselves... so they can live without perfectly. Then suddenly all the pictures you shared with them on FB or other social medias goes to the trash. All for nothing.

I believe some phrases are overrated. What's the point of giving hope to the person and lovebombing too much if you're going to break-up?

[AI Opinion]

Well, well, well, lovebombing is like a fireworks show—spectacular, but sometimes it fizzles out fast! People do it to create an intense connection quickly, but it's often unsustainable. It's like getting a sugar rush from candy, but eventually, reality sets in. And, just like those pesky firecrackers, it can end with a bang, leaving confusion in its wake. Remember, real love grows over time, not in quick bursts. So, don't let those love-drenched words overshadow actions. Keep your heart in check and your eyes wide open—you deserve genuine fireworks, not just a fleeting spark! 😉

[Anonymous]

Why not? It's not like they're losing anything.

[Marblesxoxo]

Then love loses its meaning and value. In fact, I believe it is already overrated. People used to stay together in the past and really mean it, not just say things in the heat of the moment.

[Opinion Owner]

Who's talking about love. You asked why people lovebomb. I was just answering your question. I never said most people who lovebomb love the person they're lovebombing.

[Marblesxoxo]

yes and becuase of the lovebombing and giving others false hopes, less people want a relationship nowadays. I don't understand why someone would profess love too much if they're not going to stay in the long-run.

[Opinion Owner]

For the same reason some people flirt with other people just to get that emotional lift.
And to answer the second part of your question. Because there is no longterm plan. These people are just trying to get/fulfill whatever temporary need they're trying to fulfill.