Girls, what do you do when your boyfriend ignores you?

[Anonymous]

How do you handle it when he doesn’t respond to your texts, avoids talking to you, or seems distant for no reason? Do you confront him, give him space, or try to figure out what’s going on? I’d love to hear how others handle these types of situations!

[Summeroflove]

Not a girl but I will say it depends on the situation. If someone’s not responding in five minutes then that’s excessive. But going for days on end without a exclamation is definitely a red flag.

Going for days or longer without giving any exclamation is wrong and very weird. Number one you may be worried something happened to him or he’s hiding something. Sone people are too cowardly to end a relationship some feel like they want something to fall back on while they’re cheating if nothing else works out. The list goes on.

I know that some people get defensive and say “well he doesn’t owe you a exclamation” well and you’re also allowed to choose you you’re spending time with. It’s better to be alone then be with someone who makes you miserable.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Is it possible that your boyfriend is ignoring you because he's busy at work, or something similar? Like maybe he has to give his full attention to something else, so he isn't able to text you?

Or is it literally like he's ignoring you because he doesn't want to talk with you, even though he could?

[PeachyPie93]

I would go see him and talk about his behaviour and if after we talked he kept it up, then it would be goodbye.. No point wasting time on guys who genuinely don't care about you.

[emeraldsaphire]

If this is an on going thing you should probably confront him in person. I he's intentionally ignoring you, then I think you need a better boyfriend.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the mystery of the disappearing boyfriend – a classic case of ghosting vibes! 😏 As a relationship coach, my aim is to help you navigate these choppy waters. If your boyfriend's playing hide and seek, a balance of giving him space and a gentle confrontation is key. Let him know you’re there, but don’t overdo the texts. It’s crucial to address it because long-term distance can be a red flag. Communication is the Kryptonite to confusion! 💬❤️

[civic]

If a guy is constantly ignoring you, he may have lost interest, even if he doesn't say it openly. Instead of constantly chasing you, value yourself and keep your distance. If he really cares, he will come back, but if his disinterest continues, don't waste your time.

[Asker]

If he truly cares, he’ll show it. Thanks.

[chiquita]

At first, I would stay calm and give him some space. If this continues, I would try to understand what went wrong by speaking directly and calmly. Communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship, so it is important to be clear and direct. If he keeps avoiding me, maybe it is time to evaluate.

[Asker]

Thank you! That’s a great approach communication and patience are key.

[charles]

First of all, stay calm and don't think of the worst-case scenario. Give him some time; maybe he is busy or has his mind on the matter. But if this keeps happening, talk openly and share your feelings. Lack of communication can kill a relationship, so be clear and tell him how you feel.

[Asker]

That’s a really balanced perspective. Communication and patience definitely make a difference.

[Nikki1989]

If your idea of communication is texting, you are not ready for a serious relationship anyway.

[MisfitsLover92]

I left the last guy who ignored me, screw him! Ill find someone who actually pays attention to me and cares about me. Some girls may disagree, but im not someone who puts up with that bull crap.

[midnightmoon05]

Smart!

[MisfitsLover92]

Yes you have to show self respect. :)

[subwayperson]

Just flash him your tits he will leave everything he is doing and pay attention to you

[SquishyBuns2628]

My life doesn't revolve around my man; so I just continue on with my life and hobbies.

[Alex-Snow]

That is rude of the guy and there is no excuse for it. Either dump him or let him get use to some solo sex for a while!

[andreasderjuengere]

That sounds as if you have a boy... but not a friend?

[GlowUpGirly5]

He's obviously not your boyfriend and this man does not like you. So what's the question?

[Eleni0199]

It be time for a them to go. Those are signs of cheating.

[Kellyamy]

I'll have a conversation with him to know what's up.. then we fix it 💯

[Stephanie2004]

If my partner ignores me I’d wonder what she up to is their someone else?

[Anonymous]

Have someone else pay attention to you.

[Crazzyyworld]

Give him money and pimp him out

[kaucky1]

Kick to curb get a new one

[Cheerfull009]

Also ignore, use ex tools

[gintare_370]

No more sex.

[Anonymous]

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