ok so me and my boyfriend are in an online relationship (I do not want to hear about what a bad idea this is) . We met about 3 months ago and we talked almost everyday until a few weeks ago. He is not online as often as he used to be and when he is online he doesn't talk to me unless I say hi first. I try to make conversation with him and he gives me one word answers and is really hard to talk to. It never used to be like this at all. He was always the one chasing me! He has even spoke of being together forever. I tried talking to him about it and he gave me some excuses that I was satisfied with and he said he still wants me to come visit him but then nothing changed after that. He still didn't go online as often. I think he might be just taking me for granted. Should I play hard to get and wait for him to contact me? I am afraid that could only make it worse because he might wait for a long time before contacting me. Last week we didn't talk for 6 days and I finally contacted him. I'm so confused. What should I do?
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he's being hot/cold...you are also being the same...together you are playing each other off different wavelengths...you both need to get back in synch...communicate like chess, you make a move then wait...he will make a move eventually...if no move, then it's definitely over...also consider the next time you are both talking to figure out how often you plan on talking to each other whether daily or weekly or longer0
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