Okay so I have never met my boyfriend in person yet and we have been together for 7 months, we were friends before getting together. We used to talk much more when the relationship was new and we both had to study and other things to do in life, we both were busy and we still are. But in the beginning, we both made time for each other, no matter how tired we were, how late it was at night, we always talked almost all day. It’s been 7 months now and I have been noticing from the past few months, like 2 months that he stopped doing those little things for me, which made me overthink and I started having doubts. I asked him and i told him that i felt that way and instead of apologising or explaining, he started yelling at me and telling me that I have a problem, I am way too clingy and controlling over him, and other things. But I always respected the fact that he is busy, I always encouraged him to go out with his friends and I never told him not to do something. It’s his life and he is free to do whatever he wants but I feel like now I am the only one who cares and loves in this relationship. He asked me to prioritise him, we set some future goals together (marriage etc) but I feel like I am the only one who is taking everything seriously and he has been taking me for granted. He is free at the weekends and he always prioritised his family and friends, he stopped texting me even if he is free, we don’t talk that much anymore. And he told me that we have to pay attention to our personal lives too. That hurt me. We will meet in 2 months and I used to bee so excited about it, but now, because of the way he behaves, i don’t know if i should meet him. Am I the problem? Should i stop overthinking this much? Should i do something to save the relationship? I really love him and I don’t want to lose him. But i also want to be treated the way i treat him snd that is not up to me.
I feel like my long distance relationship is failing because my boyfriend is ignoring me. What should I do?
