My boyfriend ignores me what should I do?

[Anonymus2001]

I got in a fight with my boyfriend because he had many times lied to me so he won't spend time with me. He says many times that he is busy and I just want a boyfriend who I can spend more time with and do thing. He started texting cold when I started the argument and now he didn't return to my last message. Should I text him anything first?

[imtiaz45]

Feeling ignored by your boyfriend can be hurtful and frustrating. Here are some steps you might consider taking:

Communicate: Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel in a calm and non-confrontational manner. Let him know that you feel ignored and express why it's important to you to have his attention.
Listen: Give him a chance to explain his perspective. There might be reasons behind his behavior that you're not aware of, such as stress, personal issues, or misunderstandings.
Set Boundaries: Clearly communicate what you need in the relationship in terms of attention and communication. Establish boundaries that both of you agree to respect.
Find Compromise: Work together to find a balance that meets both of your needs. This might involve scheduling quality time together or finding alternative ways to connect, such as through text messages or shared activities.
Evaluate the Relationship: Reflect on whether this pattern of behavior is a temporary issue or a recurring problem. Consider whether the relationship is meeting your emotional needs overall.
Seek Support: If the situation doesn't improve or if you feel unable to resolve it on your own, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or therapist.
Remember, healthy communication and mutual respect are essential in any relationship. If your boyfriend consistently disregards your feelings or refuses to address the issue, it might be worth reassessing the relationship's dynamics and considering whether it's healthy for you to continue.

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[CuteVenus]

It's gonna be hard but honestly just break up with him, I've been in that situation before where he would punish me by giving me the silent treatment and it never got better. It rarely gets better so if you can find it in yourself to be strong, listen to that man's actions and move on.

[slatyb]

You should end this and date someone who cares

[Anonymous]

Busy = not interested anymore. I’m sorry.

[OtterMan68]

time to move on