What's the point in caring when people abandon you at the drop of a hat?

[Anonymous]

Like, why even bother. When countless conversations, shared secrets and trust can be tossed aside, why try and stick around? I don't see a point

[Finchie40]

Because eventually you will find someone that actually cares , you are just encountering bad seeds at this time , Most of us do in our lifetime , which I understand it sucks and it happens and it’s frustrating, but the best thing to do is pick yourself back up and move forward and try again , it’s just like riding a bike for the first time , if you keep falling , you pick yourself back up and try again. So dating is the same thing for the most part , if you keep trying , you will eventually succeed and meet someone that chooses you the same way you choose them. Don’t change who you are as a person to appease anyone , Still treat people the same way you want to be treated in return and eventually you will find a good seed that wants to grow with you. Best advice I can give you is learn how to remove selfishness from within yourself , Selfishness is one of the biggest reasons people fail in relationships. Every single one of of us has selfishness inside of ourselves , so if you can’t remove that selfishness for someone , don’t expect them to remove it for you , For a relationship to last and for love to continue to grow between you both , you have to make your partner your top priority the same way you want them to make you theirs, No one on this planet is perfect , we are all imperfect people , So don’t expect perfection in any relationship you choose to be in , Learn to accept their flaws the same way you want them to accept yours. We can’t force someone to love us and to stay with us , all we can do is choose them the same way we hope they choose us. The only time you should walk away from a partner is if they are physically abusive to you , mentally abusive to you or they are cheating on you , other than that , you are best to fix what is broken between you both , and learn to take accountability for your actions and mistakes, as well, instead of just pointing fingers at them before pointing fingers at yourself first. Not one guy or one girl on this planet is perfect. When you learn not to make everything about yourself and remove selfishness , you will more than likely meet someone that does the same for you

[Nikki1989]

Just because some people have let you down doesn't mean everyone will. There are people out there who will cherish your care and reciprocate it.

[Asker]

It's just consistent. I try my best, I get along and have fun. But people keep abandoning me over stupid things. It's just tiring, you know?

[Anonymous]

For a few close friends it's worth it but most just love to gossip and share your secrets!

[jahaims]

You invest in weak people

[Asker]

Evidently so