So if a woman is really done with you or very pissed off, she'll reject even your highest offer?

[JohnCar]

It happened to my friend a couple years ago. His then girlfriend (now ex girlfriend) left after they've been together for 8 years. They were both 30 year-olds by then. He didn't want it all to end and tried everything to get her back, including giving her the highest offer (he went crazy and spent slightly over $4,000 on a ruby diamond ring); what she always wanted. Needless to say she wasn't impressed and still declined him. That was her favorite gemstone she said no to. All she said was ''It's beautiful but after 8 years, why now? I would've accepted it years ago, I don't want it anymore'' and how he's not the one she wants a future with, not anymore. Apparently she checked out emotionally and gave up before the break-up.

I know a woman hates waiting forever for a proposal. Then when he finally does after she breaks up with him, she can still decline him. Damn if you don't do it and damn if you do when she leaves you because it's too late in her eyes.

So basically you can bring Congress all you want to, offer her commitment but when she's done with you or very pissed off... she'll still decline you? Are many women indeed complicated creatures?

[mandyfire98]

So the lesson is she couldn't be bought. She was in it for love. Once the love was gone, no amount of money would keep her. You either feel it or you don't.

[JohnCar]

yeah she turned down his marriage proposal. He tried so hard to get her back and would've given her kids by now. He regrets making her wait too long. Still, that must hurt to be rejected like that.

[BonzoInBitburg]

She'll reject every offer. The only way she might come back is if you accept the breakup and try to move on as quickly as possible. Just go and live your best life and there s good chance you'll hear from them again but only if you're capable of moving on. The only way it's works the second time with someone is by starting over by after you both have changed

[JohnCar]

It was still surprising that she rejected my friend's marriage proposal and with her favorite gemstone. Damn. For a woman to still say no to that, she must be super hurt and pissed off.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some relationship magic dust on your questions! ✨ It seems like, in your friend's scenario, the emotional Word closed an exhibit long before the lavish Ruby was showcased. Once someone's checked out, even the grandest gestures can't flip the switch back on. Women, just like anyone, value genuine connection over glitzy objects when emotions are already in the past. Proposals are about timing and sentiment, not just dazzlers. So basically, it's not about complicated; it's about recognizing when the bookshelf is full before building more shelves, lovely! 💎

[Plugs]

Complicated? Sounds simple to me

[JohnCar]

But he went after her to propose with her favorite gemstone (it costing slightly over $4,000) and she still said no to that. He tried so hard to win her back.

[Plugs]

1 million would have made sense

[JohnCar]

Millionaires don't make up the majority of the population. Few people are legitimate rich.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes.

[JohnCar]

That's quite shocking. Not even a proposal wins her back, wow.