Did you ever like your friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

When did you start liking her? How long did you hook up until you realized you like her more than you thought. Did you develop feelings?

[Finchie40]

Yes my very first FWB’s I ended up falling for her, but unfortunately , I overlooked the fact that she fell for me first , so by the time I fell for her , she moved on and I lost my chance with her , in a sense , it was kind of both of our faults , she hinted that she wanted to be more than FWB’s with me but she didn’t actually say it , which I blame her for not opening her mouth , as for me , I was just enjoying being single and having fun and not thinking about relationships whatsoever. I do miss her and she will always be in my heart. I tried finding her on social media , but had no luck doing so.

[Asker]

How long did it take for you to fall for her? Did you guys hang out and talk outside of the bedroom? Why did you fall for her?

[Finchie40]

I fell for her completely after a few months we were having sex , but her and I were just friends’ first in the beginning before we started having sex , we hung out a lot outside the bedroom as well , I feel for her because she was my best friend

[Kelley1]

That doesn't matter. There are a million just like her.

[Finchie40]

When I find one that is close enough to her then maybe.

[ManOnFire]

No offense, but I already knew this was asked by a female when I saw it on the homepage before seeing the poster lol. But yeah, I did like a friends with benefits before. I think I actually came to like her after maybe the first month. I seriously cared about her.

[Asker]

None taken. Mind I ask what made u care for her? Did u guys hang out outside of the bedroom?

[ManOnFire]

Yes we did. Plus the more she told me about herself the more I was drawn to her. But in the end she was the one who eventually lost interest, so it didn't much matter.

[Asker]

Mind I ask how often you guys talked/called and hung out?

[ManOnFire]

We always talked through text just about every day, and occasionally called. I would say we hung out fairly regularly for the distance we lived away from each other. Maybe not every week, but definitely more than once a month. She had feelings for me very early on before I did for her, then I started having feelings for her and we were both equally interested. But a shift happened where she eventually started slowly pulling away and I was falling even more in love with her, and then things ended.

They always say when a guy cares too much that's when a woman starts pulling away. And I learned that.

[RageBabe]

I've never done the whole friends with benefits. I could have, but I desire commitment above all else, so friends with benefits was never my thing. A girlfriend of mine did it; she said he caught feelings, but she simply wasn't interested in taking it further with him at that time in her life.

[Asker]

What made him catch feelings? How soon did that happen?

[texascollegegirl]

I admit I tend to develop feelings for the girls I had sex with. The big dick Blacks I have sex with, it's about the sex. There are strong feelings but it's sexual and not really about wanting them in the same way.

[Asker]

Did u develop feelings from often hooking up or did u guys talk often outside of the bedroom too?

[Staximus]

This is a dude

[texascollegegirl]

It's a great question. I have been with both girlfriends and girls I just hooked up with and I develop feelings for both. Like with my girlfriends a lot of our talk is sexual anyway but I might develop a crush, or they might. Then it's breaking the ice and sex brings a flood of new emotions. With girls I hook up with I just find them really attractive - a lot of it is body and looks but also situation, and I like smart girls who can carry on a conversation or know how to flirt. Like with the guys I'm with, I don't need to know a girl well to have sex. The feelings come fast even though I'm never going to be exclusive with them, just like I won't with the big dick Blacks I'm with. Still the feelings are very different, like a different kind of intimacy because we're both girls. I'm a little more guarded with the lesbians because they're not going to be into hung Blacks the way I am, so we don't share that in common.

[emeraldsaphire]

Well I only ended up dating one of my friends with benefits. we were friends with benefits for about a month before we started dating

[Nikki1989]

Well, obviously. I wouldn't have been with them otherwise.

[Asker]

Did they develop feelings?

[MarjorieJ]

I think so, because we kept breaking the rules.

[Asker]

What were the rules?

[MarjorieJ]

No overnights
No outings of any kind
No shopping
No movies
etc

[chrissykerdock]

of course you do you do enjoy the campaignship

[Anonymous]

Yeah, we’ve been dating for over 3 years now. Planning to get married next year 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Nope. If she was an friends with benefits, it's because I found her physically attractive, but that I didn't think much of her personality.

[Asker]

What if you two get a long really well and you find her funny?

[Opinion Owner]

For me, that's why she'd be a "friend" with benefits. I like being around her, but I don't think her personality is one I can cultivate a deeper relationship with. I wouldn't even be having sex with her if I didn't enjoy having her around. I'm rare though. A lot of people treat their friends with benefits like absolute dogs.

[Asker]

How come a lot treat their friends with benefits like shit? I keep hearing that. Do you guys hangout or talk on phone outside of hooking up?

[Opinion Owner]

They do it to make sure that feelings don't develop with the person they're having sex with.

When I've had friends with benefits in my life, they've basically been normal friendships with that extra spice of sex.

[Asker]

Do u notice if guys do that more or do girls act like assholes so feelings won’t happen as well?

[Opinion Owner]

I've never been with a guy, so I wouldn't know about that. But I can tell you that I hear a decent number of women complain about it, and I can tell you that almost every woman I've been "casual" with, where we actually had a conversation about it, has been absolutely awful.

It seems like women are generally a little bit nicer in those situations if you don't ever talk about it.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

women in America dont know the difference between a real boyfriend and a friends with benefit so I imagine they do 99% of the times

[Oldschool1981]

My wife has a side guy who seems nice enough

[Jimmerjammermama83]

I’m a widow 41, 2 kids 19 year old boy girl twins!! I’m looking for a friend with benefits that’s it!! No strings attached

[smd_5545]

No risk only fun good choice 😀 @Jimmerjammermama83

[Nerdvana]

@jimmerjammermama83 Do you consider yourself a very sexual woman?

[Anonymous]

Never. I would have promoted one of them to girlfriend if I thought they were decent people.

[KrakenAttackin]

A fuck buddy is just for draining balls and not to be taken seriously.

[Anonymous]

No, I could never take a woman seriously who participates in friends with benefits arrangements. I don't do them anyway.

[PepperJackson]

I think about her everyday. I wish I had a time machine.

[red-lipstick-girl]

No, I didn't do anything like that.

[HungTexan]

It’s not uncommon in my experience.

[MoonFace2]

I have with guys…so I ended things.

[Anonymous]

Be careful. This doesn’t happen that often.

[Jerre]

I like all my FWBs

[debtfree_oneyear]

Never had a friend with benefits

[Godihateyou]

I loved them. They left when I knocked up my wife.

[QuietRunner]

yes I have

[Asker]

What made u like them or caught feelings with them?

[Anonymous]

Nope.