I’m 20 years old and 16 stone what are my chances of finding a relationship?

[chrisJallan932]

[Cormac995]

I'm not going to lie they're incredibly low. Statistically fewer people are dating and getting married than ever before in American history. Your age demographic is even more competitive and limited then mine and I gave up because the odds were so low. There are a lot of videos going over statistics and stuff plus articles, books and documents on it, but the fact of the matter is even if you have a lot of things going for you the odds are still low.

Dating is expensive for one and for anther a lot of people don't have the time either. Further social media has destroyed human socialization. If you walk up to a stranger in a library now and try to talk to them, you're weird and creepy. There is basically no place left except for bars where it's socially acceptable to approach a stranger and strike up a conversation and bars are a bad place to make lasting bonds.

Dating apps are also very unlikely to help because there are at least 3-5 men for every 1 woman on each of those apps so if you're average looking and/or not financially well off you get swept left on in a heartbeat because they have all the options they could want at their fingertips.

Simply put they think they can do better than you because woman are in far more demand then men so they have their pick. This is why I get PO'd when I say posts like "All men want is sex" because that's not true. Holes only want sex good men actually care.

If a woman and you've ended up in that situation repeatedly maybe you should reconsider your standards because you seem to have really bad taste. The majority of men aren't sex crazed creeps with no self-control that will abuse you. Most of the time they're just average dudes that don't want to be alone their whole life.

[jahaims]

It depends on your height/build. A flat weight isn't a good metric of attraction. Muscle mass etc. come into play.

[Alwayreckles93]

Well if your a devoted Christian and love the Lord. I would suggest getting Christian Mingle. But if you live a secular lifestyle do whatever you want.

[Nikki1989]

You have as much chance as anyone else.

[AI Opinion]

As your flirtatious relationship guru, let me say love is a game where everyone can score, no matter their size, shape, or flavor! 😉 Confidence is your secret weapon. Attraction starts from within, and believe me, there's someone out there for everyone. Work on having fun, be yourself, and you'll find someone who can't resist your charm. Love often turns a blind eye to the scales! 🥰

[Inafishbowl99]

This is so true and it's such a reassuring answer.

[Anonymous]

My husband is 35 and 16 stone. He's 6ft7

[In_Trance]

No better or worse than anyone else

[EmmaMary]

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