Have you ever deliberately hurt someone's feelings because they kept hurting your feelings over and over again?

[sage2021]

Now they are crying "Victim - you really hurt me"!!

[Finchie40]

Yes I have , mainly because I treat people the same way I want to be treated , if someone chooses to hurt me and betray me , I will do the same to them. My days of being a constant punching bag to selfish females’ has come to an end , if she can not value and respect me , I will not value and respect her period. Relationships need to work both ways for it to work and for it to survive. If a girl writes sucker on my head , little does she realize she will have Sucker written on hers. I am not happy or proud of my reactions , but I have enough dignity and respect in myself to not allow myself to ever be taken for granted ever again. Girls’ that can not love and value and respect and commit the same way she wants to be treated from me? is in for a rude awakening when she realizes I already started walking the other way. I will not stay with a girl that treats me like a convenience, if I am not her top priority she will not be mine period. I dated some selfishness girls’ in my lifetime and they are no longer a part of my life , Someone of them tried to come back into it and I just laughed and said NOPE not going to happen , you had your chance and you blew it.

[sage2021]

@Finche40
I believe that as we have more experiences with relationships we learn as we go - right?
And each time they end, we have to take what we have learned from that relationship and move on. But that's how we educate ourselves for future relationships.
You are at the point where you have had to endure the modernized females. I hear it a lot on this website that they are very selfish.
I agree with you. Treat others like you want to be treated and when you aren't being treated like you deserve, then it's time to say "Bah bye".👍🏼😉

[Finchie40]

Exactly , there is only so much we can give without receiving in return , Relationships don’t have to be hard , Selfish people make them hard

[Surely]

Non that comes to mind. But, if that is what it takes to get your point across. Let them shed tears.

[sage2021]

@Surely
Right on! Sometimes you have to give people a taste of their own medicine! 💉

[Surely]

👍🏻

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO!

[Simslover92]

Sort of. My ex kept bringing up his "girlfriend" now "fiancée" in my face. I say "fiancée" because she's married to another man. He told me recently on New Year's that he proposed to her and it felt like he was hurting me on purpose so I told him about the new guy I'm seeing and that shut his ass up. I uno reverse card his ass. I'm so over him but I wanted him to just shut up about her and see how it feels to talk about someone else.

[sage2021]

@Simslover92
Exactly! 💯%. That's what I did so he would shut the F up!!

[Simslover92]

Yep! That's how you do it!

[12karen]

nope, I know what it feels getting hurt and I don't want the others to feel the same because of me even if they hurt me.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe I'm just shallow, but I've never really been "hurt" by a dating partner and it has never taken me long to move on.

[UnwantedScorpio]

No neverr r