Has anyone ever hurt you so bad or made you so angry that they brought out the worst in you and you said hurtful things to them that you didn't mean?

[sage2021]

Haven't most of us done this at one time or another?
Hurt people, hurt people!

[tfan1]

Yes my girlfriend - now my wife - back then she was asking me a computer question about why a certain software wouldn’t play her videos. I did a lot of digging, upgrading the player, etc. the more we tried the more it backfired. I was already ticked off when everything that was suggested didn’t work. Finally she said I know you have associate computer degree but now I question your computer knowledge. THAT was the straw that broke the camel’s back. I have never said the f bomb in my life - but I atomic f bombed her on the phone. I said excuse me? You are the one who wanted my help, and now that we’ve tried a few things that aren’t working, you f’n dare to question my f’n computer knowledge? This is called f’n troubleshooting! Things don’t f’n always work so you have to keep f’n going! And you know me, I f’n rarely give up! If this one isn’t working, get another f’n player to watch your f’n videos!

At this point, she was quiet and knew she crossed a big line. I took a deep breath and calmed myself down. This was one of the very few times she actually apologized to me. We found her a new better and free player. Since that time we have had arguments, etc. but I haven’t f bombed her since that time. I hope I never have to ever again.

[sage2021]

@tfan1
Sometimes when we only have one nerve left and someone gets on it it's the straw that breaks the camel's back and we can say anything or do anything out of character of us. We are human and when someone keeps pushing our buttons we say something or do something just to get them to shut up quite frankly 🙂☮️

[Yannae]

Half yes. I'm not the type who barks, I'm the type who bites. She brought out the worst in me. I almost attacked her in a fit of blind rage, never had blind rage before, but now I know what it is. regained control before I actually did anything.

[sage2021]

@Yannae
Yup! That's what he was doing to me - bringing out the worst in me and kept hurting me then resalting my open wound over and over until I wanted him to hurt so I said something I knew would hurt him. I didn't mean it literally and I never do that but he was pushing me.
I have ALWAYS been supportive and encouraging and sweet and caring to him for the past five months!
So I say one thing out of my character because he wouldn't let up on me and now he thinks I am like Dr. Jeykel and Mr. Hyde personality and I have issues. Screw him and anyone that looks like him! He is so wrong about me and see there again just now after rehashing this with you I said something else I didn't mean 😅🤪
🙄

[rosemilk]

yep. and i always agree with the "hurt people, hurt people" quote because it's very true. feeling bad, doing bad, and then putting that bad onto someone else and then they feel bad and do something bad is a vicious cycle to break

[StudyingAuthor]

Yeah... I can't say they didn't deserve it tho.

[IslaTheWitch]

I was hurt... but I rarely am angry... in such situations I'm most often my own enemy... not the best coping mechanism :D

[Finchie40]

Oh yes , most of my exes , most people say stupid shit when they are angry and upset and say things they really don’t mean to say , but sometimes they do mean what they say , so it’s the joys of relationships lol

[Anonymous]

Yes, my ex hurt me so much, I wanted to slap him but didn't

[sage2021]

People can really push our buttons and keep pushing them until we can no longer just sit back and take it. You say something mean to them so they'll just stop being hurtful and mean.
I am not a robot!🙂

[Anonymous]

Yeah… I ended up slapping him in the face. It wasn’t right what I did, even though he was being disrespectful and calling me names, I shouldn’t have resorted to slapping him. I should’ve just talked shit back at him lol

[exitseven]

Yes, I have done this. I do not feel bad about it. Somebody hurt me in the worst way I took it out on her best friend. I regret this.

[Dongie]

Yes. Not just in the romantic sense. But family, strangers. We'll, strangers were not just words.

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of close people

[Maxx_P25]

ok i will hurt people 😄