Is it really necessary to break up with a good partner?

[mattthefatbat]

Partnerships, relationships, and friendships all derive on making things work and cooperation with eachother to finding solutions together which make a bond stronger. So if both people are always willing to cooperate with eachother and willing to help make things work no matter what happens, then breakups just shouldn't happen.
However it seems like as soon as one side refuses to cooperate and communicate, they just pull the plug on the relationship and it all just ends despite them being with someone who is always willing to listen communicate and cooperate.
But yeah basically what I'm saying is i think breakups never really Absolutely have to happen if the partner is honestly good. What does need to happen is better cooperation understanding and communication from both.
It may be just because I'm just a guy that never really sees the need to break apart good things that honestly aren't broken. Until something substantially bad happends. Like if your partner just treated you like shit in every way then yeah i could see people not being willing to try anymore for a person like that then.

But what do you think? Can't most breakups be avoided?

Yes I think things could be worked out

Nah they just want to end it. so just move on

Connections are hard to maintain. I'd rather just be alone

[AI Opinion]

Hey lovebirds! You're speaking my language – communication and cooperation are the lifelines of any relationship. 💞 While it's dreamy to imagine that breakups could be avoided if both partners are on board, reality sometimes marches to a different beat. Even with a good partner, mismatched goals, personal growth, or that pesky itch of incompatibility might necessitate a breakup. It's not about giving up on good things; it's about embracing what's best for you both. Love yourself enough to make choices that align with your happiness. 💔🌟

[Johnsmth]

It depends. Like you said if your partner has genuinely treated you horribly then breaking up is the best option in my opinion. But in many cases things could be worked out.

[Flower7]

Just because someone is a good person doesn’t mean attraction is still there. A relationship can’t work without romantic interest from both sides.

[Danielle93]

Then there is another reason people break-up even when there is romantic interest; lack of common goals and values. If you're only compatible with them in the bedroom but have nothing in common in other subjects besides sex and romance (one wants kids and the other never wants kids for instance) then sadly it ends too.