Is this regular behaviour from my boyfriend justifiable?

[Anonymous]

He drinks and smokes regularly, knowing how much i hate it, hangs out with people who are a bad influence, doesn’t want to spend money on or for me, is childish. Even after making him aware that i am looking for seriousness to a level that i can think of marrying him, nothing changes whatsoever.

[Anonymous]

He *probably* will grow up some day but that sounds many many years away. You should decide how patient you're going to be waiting for it. I'd escape soon.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Tell him about your dislike of his habits and sketchy buddies and if he doesn't heed your concerns, BOOT THAT BOY !!!

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here on GAG, I can say your love life should be a rom-com, not a horror flick 🚨. If your boyfriend's behavior feels more like a red flag parade than a joyful journey, it might be time to reassess your relationship goals. Love is about collaboration, not a solo gig. If he's not willing to step up for a healthier partnership, you deserve someone who will! Keep love thrilling and fulfilling, darling! 😘❤️

[Ironic_Method]

Your standards must be pretty low.

[jahaims]

You're an idiot for even considering staying

[Fury_storm]

you're an idiot for wasting your youth on him

[HoldingtheSword]

No...