I gave her what she wanted, why would she decline me... isn't late better than never, better than nothing?

[Anonymous]

My ex girlfriend moved 3-4 miles away after the break-up several months ago. We've been together for 6 years. I went after her to give her what she wanted. I don't mind compromising in the end. I prefer sticking to that special girl instead of going through that whole dating process (the dating pool isn't that good anymore and it's harder the older you get) over again. She was unique, hard to find.

I did asked her the question. Yet she still declined me and told me it was too late. I drove miles away from home with a hot traffic jam just for her to say no. I get that it was a last minute, late attempt but at least I tried. Wouldn't that effort make any woman reconsider? Isn't that better than nothing? Better late than never?

She used to talk about wanting a future and child with me. So why would she refuse me when I'm offering her that opportunity? I've already opened the gate. I've even told her we can go to the registrar's office or even a drive-thru and have it done next week. Why don't she accept it?

[PeachyPie93]

It's because you didn't genuinely want to marry her. You were just compromising to her wishes.. and if you broke up and waited months to ask her that makes it even worse. She knows you aren't the one.

[Asker]

Compromising to her wishes would've been better than having to date all over again; going through all that process again; back at zero. I didn't want to break up, she did. She left. I'm sure several people compromise on things in life and in the end it works out good and they're happy.
I took months to ask her because I was still grieving about the break-up, didn't want to believe it was over. Then once I had time to think it over, I proposed. I know it was late. She was like one of those unique people that you rarely meet and I lost her.
I know it sounds stupid but now I'm wishing she would just say yes to me and give this last chance. I can be the one she wished for.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah but do you genuinely love her.. do you think she is the one you want to spend your whole life with? Or do you just not want to open up to someone new again and go though the whole dating process? 3 or 4 months is a long time to think before deciding to chase someone.

[Asker]

If I didn't, I wouldn't have chased after her nor be willing to compromise. I would like to think there is some hope she might come back and I can ask again.

[Asker]

I only have 30 days to return the ring though.

[PeachyPie93]

Maybe try again..

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[lightbulb27]

tough negotiations...

some no's are no, some are maybe, some no's change to yeses later on. she may have given up.

[Asker]

and now that I would be ok and want what she wanted, she doesn't anymore. I find myself missing her, wishing she would say yes to my proposal if I were to ask her again. I wish she would say yes to me.

[lightbulb27]

She’s hurting you as you hurt her… giving medicine. Show her you learned how she feels, see if she cracks door. But if she plays like this for real… you may want to think twice. Therapist / counselor be wise either way

[slatyb]

She decided that you aren't the one. It's over. Sorry.

[Asker]

I didn't want this to end. She broke-up; I didn't. Now I have to go through the headache of starting the whole dating process (like mentioned, the dating pool isn't that great either) all over again and the chances of meeting someone unique like her are slim.
I wish she would just give me this last chance and say yes to my proposal.

[slatyb]

I'm reminded of a story related by some notable person. They were working in a local drug store. One day they came in looking down and the pharmacist asked "What's wrong" "My girl broke up with me" "Oh, that'll happen a lot."

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the mysterious world of love and timing, where persistence is romantic, yet timing is everything! 🌹 Your effort and longing to reignite the spark are commendable, but remember, timing plays a crucial role in relationships.

It's possible she needed emotional closure or time to heal after the breakup, and your sudden offer might feel overwhelming to her. Sometimes love is about more than proximity and willingness. People change, as do their desires and priorities. If her heart has moved on or she's prioritized self-discovery, those can't be solved by a grand gesture. Compromise is essential, but only if both parties are willing to meet halfway. It’s not about coercing, but mutual willingness to rebuild. It just might be that the timing wasn’t right for her now. Always remember, love isn’t effortless; it takes two to tango! 🕺 💃 Keep your chin up and know that in love, lessons learned are just as important as the happy endings. 💪✨

[Nikki1989]

But nothing is BETTER than some men.

You gave her what she wanted... you need to think again.

[Asker]

Though I can be the one she wished for if she would just give me this last chance. I wish she would come back and just say yes to my proposal. I do want her in my life.

[Abbycado]

Probably because your a pussy that goes anon. I dunno.

[Asker]

I'm going anon because it's embarassing to face that fact I've just undergone a rejection of the highest order from my ex girlfriend. I wanted her to say yes.