What causes a women to become depressed in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Are there certain behaviors Is it not used to being in a serious relationship, lack of freedom like she had when she was single

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[PeachyPie93]

When she chooses a guy she expects that guy to give her what she cut off from other men. Like sex, conversations, love, attention, praise, dates, fun, and spending time. When the man lacks in these areas and stops giving her one or more of these things she starts to feel inadequate and starts to feel unworthy and bad about herself. Which usually makes her depressed and if the guy doesn't openly communicate well with her she will eventually leave to find someone who makes her feel loved again.

[Anonymous]

If there is anything that creates problems in having someone's true nature then that can cause them depressed.

If someone is naturally social, and in relationship they can't do so they can make them depressed similarly if someone is reserved naturally and if in relationship she has to get involved more with people are parties etc, that can also make her feel depressed.

[Asker]

So what if none of that was happening and my traits took a backseat to hers

[Opinion Owner]

Then I guess you will be the depressed one as you are not acting as per your natural behaviour and it cannot be forever in peace like that.

[Opinion Owner]

You actually can't know what's going on in someone's mind unless and until you happen to discuss with them. If you don't know what's making her depressed try to make her speak, try to open up different topics what you feel could be reason. Ultimately what's in her head what's bothering her will come automatically because it will be always on the surface of all of her thoughts and actions.