What can make an outstanding attractive and beautiful woman fall in love with a man who most consider average in appearance?

[Professor-college]

[Anonymous]

Nothing. It's purely the luck of the draw. Women have no discernable pattern when it comes to thier attraction to men. But if you want to improve your odds, your best bet is to lie, lie, lie, and then lie some more. Women almost always prefer a pleasant fiction over a plain and boring truth.

[DishLady]

A truly outstanding woman doesn't look at a guy just for his looks. The GUY also has to be outstanding.

Beauty is relative. Average is relative. Attraction is a two-way street...

[Professor-college]

What makes a man outstanding?

[DishLady]

Depends. Sometimes it's good manners, sometimes there's a unique accomplishment, etc.

[Professor-college]

I see.. you're so nice to explain it. Thank you

[DishLady]

Thanks for your kind words.

What would you say makes a woman outstanding?

[Professor-college]

A woman who is not just beautiful.. someone who's understanding intelligent goal oriented who doesn't care about what others think and follows he own ideas without being arrogant. A woman who is romantic sweet and not afraid to be passionate.

[DishLady]

I like that…

[Professor-college]

I get the feeling you're just the woman I've described 😌

[Professor-college]

Am i wrong?

[DishLady]

Aww, you're sweet to say that. I am goal-oriented and have my own opinions about pretty much everything regardless of what others consider the popular opinion. I don't specifically strut around thinking I'm pretty or smart, though... that would be obnoxious. Passionate and stubborn, lol, yeah, that's me. I aim to be kind and compassionate in all things... guys have told me I'm sweet... but I know I have a hard edge that only an emotionally/mentally sturdy type of guy would appreciate.

[Professor-college]

Wow looks like you just described me. 😊.. I would definitely try to go out with you. Because you seem to be the person I want and I think I have some of what you just described as the type of man who could love with you. I love the fact that your goal oriented because that's me as well... Most of the women I've met want a guy to just give her everything but she doesn't care about achieving gold herself... I prefer relationship to be a team... An Amish rather be with a woman who says what she's actually thinking and not want to just follow everyone else's ideas

[DishLady]

Sounds like you're just meeting poor quality women... Time to look in a different circle or something. I was talking to my students about this as well... You can't just wait around for someone to "complete" you... you have to BE complete and know yourself enough that you're ready to be with someone (who should also know themselves).

[exitseven]

If he was rich.