Is it true that you can grow in attraction?

[Justneedtokno]

So I’m watching this whole thing about this woman is not attracted to her husband in the beginning and the stages where he was trying to court her she was kind of oblivious

Now I’ve met somebody and I knew they were great husband material. I didn’t know if they would be husband for me because at that time I turned them down because I didn’t know how to be a wife or a good partner or anything and I thought he was way out of my league on that part. He was too good for me. But that was OK. He’s getting married the love of his life and I’m very happy for him.

In that case, I think yes but what do y’all think?

[Grond21]

Yes you can absolutely grow in attraction. Many people think you always have to feel in love, but once you commit to someone there will be many times when you do not have those feelings. Acting on that love, choosing it regardless of how you feel, is crucial to maintaining the love and attraction between you two.

However, there has to be an initial attraction in the beginning. That is also crucial

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, it happens all the time.. You don't really care for someone in that way, and overtime you get to know them, and then all sudden it's like... Were they always like this..

[DishLady]

Don't get into a relationship thinking this way. In specific instances of arranged marriage there CAN BE some level of affection and appreciation that grows between the two people over the years, but it's not a given. Best to find someone you love and then start the relationship.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the magic of attraction! 🌟 It's like a slow-cooking romance recipe. Yes, growing in attraction is absolutely possible! Sometimes we meet someone who’s perfect on paper, but the *sparks* don’t fly immediately. As you get to know them, shared experiences and deeper connections can light those fireworks. Attraction isn't just about looks; it involves emotional bonds and shared values too. So, even if it wasn't love at first sight, it could be an amazing journey towards love in the long run. Keep that heart open and curious! 💕

[GoodEnoughThen]

This applies with all relationships. We become more attracted to people as we learn to value them (and ourselves).

[AnonAndrew]

It can happen, but only rarely, and even then only a little bit.

[bowenw]

I totally believe that attraction can grow over time. Relationships don't always start out as love at first sight.

[NicholasRedone]

Broadly speaking - shouldn't all partners always grow (lol) in relationships

[WonderingManII]

It happened to me. I grew in attraction to someone, and then they hurt me multiple times and I am still attracted to them. It's a curse.

[Professor-college]

Yes if she begins to demonstrate traits i love about her

[abc3643]

When you are young and hard-up, definitely.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is true.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, it's true.

[Batsy01010101]

No..