How does attraction grow for you guys?

[19magic]

There are sometimes where I've seen a guy who's attractive and we can hit it off, have a fun and flirty conversation. And attraction for this guy skyrockets.

There's also sometimes I've found a guy attractive up until he opens his mouth and it's like glad I can escape that bullet, and his vibe is terrible. Then I no longer found him attractive whatsoever.

Other times it's a he's alright we have a few convos/interactions and the attraction grows, into an actual full-blown crush.

What's it like with you guys?

[Lliam]

It's the same. I initially asked women on dates if I found them attractive and liked their vibe. Once we chatted and started getting to know each other, her personality, mannerisms and values were very important in deciding if I wanted to get into a relationship. Those things made my attraction grow and turn into true respect, regard and admiration.

[OfMiceandMen]

My attraction comes from conversations and interactions with the person, it may take weeks before I am finally full blown attracted to the person. As you said, they can open their mouth once and it can all fall apart.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Usually a girl says hi and I imagine what she looks like naked and also from behind if she turns around.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I think girls make this very complicated. I have very simply way. Girl says hi to me and I check her out. To be polite I don't check her out as much from the front as from the back when she turn around because she can't see me checking her out. Then I form image of her naked and in various sex positions.

[19magic]

Okay that's great n all for one night stands etc but what about something meaningful?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

That's actually how I fall in love with her and make her wife. I'm married. I did same way with my wife.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I don't know how it works for girls but I'm very simple there too. I see girl bend over and I like her butt and so I talk to her and then we hang out so that I can see her butt more and talk to her more and then we get married and I see her butt every single day now. It's kind of samey after a while but at least it's the butt I married. I can kind of tell what she eats these days even from the other holes. But I think that's love.

[Jerre]

I feel the same as you. The attraction goes up or down depending on what comes out of her mouth. If it’s good, our conversation will eventually turn dirty and before you know it, we’re fucking.

[Jerre]

Thank you for the Like

[weysally]

mine is only a sexual attraction, nothing else

[Jennz6]

@weysally I agree with you honey

[weysally]

@Jennz6 In the navy you could have a lot of men after you

[Jennz6]

@weysally I don’t mind if they do 💃