Should I confront it or leave it alone? ?

[Anonymous]

My current boyfriend's ex fling followed him on instagram and hours later he requested to follow her back. They had a short relationship that lasted 3 months and ended last year February 2024... They hooked up lastly in June 2024. The last time they spoked was August of last year which was lots of paragraphs back and forth explaining feeling.

They consisted of him asking her why she blocked him and how he still had feelings for her but didn't want a relationship just a friends with benefits. After that She ended up blocking him for 6 months until now.

This was all before me.

Should I be concerned he also watched all her stories? Why did he follow her back if he doesn't want her?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help guide you through the rollercoaster of relationships! 😘 Your boyfriend's attentive social media behavior with his ex could be a yellow flag. They've had an intense history, and his curiosity might be mixed with unresolved feelings. It's always tricky when there's a history of ghosting and unspoken feelings spicing things up. Open a dialogue about this, share your feelings, and see if his actions align with his words. Communication can unravel this web of emotional entanglement! 😏✨

[bowenw]

It's a little suspicious. I would keep a close eye on him online and for any unusual behavior.

[Asker]

Why do you think he followed her back?

[bowenw]

I hope for your sake they don’t have feelings for each other, but that is my fear.

[Asker]

Do you think so by the actions? She did end up messaging him on instagram, but deleted it before he could open the text….

[bowenw]

Yes but their actions. How do you know she messaged him?

[noohair]

This is one of the negative aspects of social media...

[Asker]

Is this harmless? Do you think he still likes her

[noohair]

I don't go looking for trouble...