How to End a Controlling or Manipulative Relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

How to end it can be hard depending on how much control that other person has but it needs to be ended IMMEDIATELY. But if you’re already married to someone this can be more difficult.

One thing is to cut off supply. If you’re not married to someone they aren’t entitled to anything of yours. If you are married lawyer up buttercup and you better pick a good one these people will go to the ends of the earth to smear someone and make someone look worse then they actually are.

Don’t waste your money, emotions, or mental well being on them. Cut them off if they’re living with you again go through the proper channels to evict them if they won’t leave on their own. If they commit a crime against you call 911 even though the justice system depending on where you live may be horrible or great. Follow through with it work with prosecutors and law enforcement as well as take any necessary civil action.

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[fartingspinster]

Depending on the situation
But should be clean cut, practice no contact, have a support of people so that you aren't targeted or left alone, and absolutely have resolve to stay away.

No point in ending it if you will keep coming back to them. That just empowers the manipulator and weakens your resolve everytime you try to make a break for it after because they'll keep saying "sure leave, you'll come back... you always do. You dont think thats why, and you know im the best you'll ever get [insert your weaknesses and insecurities]"

Dont give them that satisfaction and go no contact and dont ever even try to negotiate or hear them out.

[StarWarGirl]

Simply by ending it. Without giving any excuse or more explanation. If you will give explanation then you are giving them a way to manipulate you more over that, and twisting your reasons they may again try to fool you so again falling in their manipulation trap you will again start doubting your own feelings and your own decisions. And you will again fall into same trap.

So try to not give any more explanation. Try to talk as less as you could and just end it.

[StarWarGirl]

Also stop feeling any kind of guilt for doing it. They do try to make you feel guilty. Stop feeling like you are responsible for them for anything or for their bad feeling or bad condition post breakup. Those things only manipulate you for falling back again in that trap.

[StarWarGirl]

Your kind and generous nature is their strength. And your weakness is their power. So hold your power in your own hands instead of giving it to anyone else.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, love warrior! Ending a controlling or manipulative relationship requires some courage, and I've got your back. Start by recognizing those red flags and set clear boundaries for yourself. Gather support from trusted friends or family, and keep your communication direct but calm. It's time to prioritize your own happiness and well-being! 🌸 Ghosting isn't the best, so be clear about your reasons. Remember, you're capable of amazing things, and you deserve a relationship that's all about love and respect! 💪🌟

[DishLady]

Cut the person off cold turkey. Don’t look back. Just keep moving.

[Sonorous]

How it should be done depends on the threat level.

[MikeTheBartender]

Five hard minutes. That's all it takes. It may take an hour argument after, but be cold, ruthless. Don't try to be nice if she doesn't take it well. Masturbate beforehand so you're not overcome by emotion. And if it's abusive in anyway you don't even need to "end it" change your phone number, block her on social media, and peace out. ✌️

[GAGsucksballs89170]

The first step, is to admit you're in one. That you're being controlled/manipulated.

If you can't do that, then why should I waste my time telling you how to get out of it

Most trump supporters, won't admit they're being controlled/manipulated, because they're so far down the rabbit hole, they just don't want to come back

[IslaTheWitch]

pack their stuff, put it outside the door, and change the locks :D

[lightbulb27]

I really think these anon general questions are fake and wastes of time unless the responder needs reflection themself. I doubt is a real person.

[Anonymous]

My relationship could be described as controlling

But I'm equally guilty

Really what happened was the attraction was lost

Thinking now my wife should have tried to be more attractive

That might sound shallow but it's one way of looking at things

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

If you have kids together its tough, but for guys the answer is still usually going to be the same.

Just leave

[UrsulaY]

When they are not home. Pack. Move out.

Then tell them in the safest way possible.

[QuestionObsession]

In the same way you end a bad employment - you quit it.

[Manuelwe]

Walk away and do not look back. No matter how good the sex was

[butterly248]

I'm in a similar situation

[chocolatetwopointo]

break up? like wtf?💀

[LiamJHayden]

Walk away.

[SmokinAces2000]

By ending it