How to Cope With Your Partner's Tattoo You Dislike?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

If it’s a deal breaker for you , then don’t date them anymore , you can’t force someone to remove something they like that you don’t like , and you can’t expect them to do it for you , You don’t own them , you aren’t their boss. So you either learn to accept it and accept them or don’t accept it and dump them and move on to someone else that doesn’t have tattoos that disgust you. I dumped a girl because she had her exes name tatted on her ass , that turned me off when I was banging her from behind , I still fucked her but I knew I wasn’t going to go any further with her after that , I honestly felt like it was disrespectful for her to have, while trying to pursue a relationship with me , I couldn’t force her to remove it and I didn’t expect her to , I just decided to not see her anymore , when she called me and asked why I haven’t called her , I told her the truth that I don’t like dating girls’ that hold on to their exes , I said the tatt on your ass was a turn off to me , sorry , she said He is right where he belongs. I laughed and said that’s cool but I’m sorry it’s a huge turn off to me. she said oh well your loss , and I said Oh well that’s fine and never spoke to her again. So I ended up meeting another girl eventually that didn’t hold on to her exes period and realized I made the right choice , one thing I don’t tolerate in relationships with girls’ are girls’ that can’t move on from the past , it’s a huge turn off to me , put the past behind you and move forward , that’s the kind of girls’ I am into. Girls’ that hold onto the past or girls’ that compare you to their exes are girls’ that are not worth dating because they are never satisfied with anything , Girls that move on from their past that treat you like you treat them is a girl you should consider staying with. In my opinion

[Summeroflove]

Well it depends on what it is if it’s that big of a issue then break it off but it’s called communication. If it bothers you that much be respectful but even if it hurts you need to communicate.

You should love the person beyond what a tattoo says but if it’s really a huge deal then don’t waste your time and especially don’t waste someone else’s. Maybe you’re not meant for one another maybe there is someone out there who won’t find it a big deal.

[TacosRAwesome]

In all honesty, if you can't stand their tattoo and they can't hide it in your present, then it's best to move on.

[Nikki1989]

There is nothing to cope with. It is only a tattoo.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the tattoo dilemma, a classic twist in relationships! Tattoos can be like love itself – sometimes complex and unexpected, right? 😄 My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle a bit of understanding and humor into these tangles. Communicate with your partner, sharing your feelings without judgment. They might view the tattoo as a part of their self-expression, a chapter in their book of life. Think of it as a conversation piece rather than a red flag. So, embrace it or at least learn to coexist with it! After all, love is about accepting the quirks too! 🖊️💕

[AviatorTom]

If it really bothers you and your partner will do nothing about it... get a new partner.

[Miristheiss]

Easy.

Don't be with them.

If you don't like tattoos and they have tattoos, you are not compatible.

If you have a tattoo you really dislike then don't be with them. You'd have to look at it every day as long as you are with them.

[JustinTheGreat]

My partner only has two small tattoos and one of them is matching with me and the other is my name, so I don’t dislike either of them lol
but I don’t think I’d be too bothered even if he got one I didn’t like. I mean unless he got a ridiculous one in the middle of his face or something lol

[Purpleronnie]

Cope?…. Personally , if a guy asked me this , I would say “just man up and grow a pair “


The way I see it , the person has 2 choices , get over themselves or move on

[molonski2]

The tattoo that read " I love being fcked by Pete " was a little difficult to look at while going missionary.

[Zack-Bann]

Can’t think of a single tattoo that I would dislike to the point of needing to “cope”


Just grow up

[DryGermanGuy]

I mix chloral hydrate into her drink and then drag her to the laser removal center. :-D

[fartingspinster]

Of course a German would have that response 😂

[DrPepper12]

I've never been with a even moderately tattooed person but ik I would find it distracting and it MAY be a deal breaker

[Anonymous]

Get over yourself or leave them for someone who loves them for who they are.

[Professor-college]

I believe it's one of those things that you're supposed to notice before you get into a relationship but if he or she gets one while you're going out then that's a different story...

[alice55]

You accept it or you break up.

[Redstang88]

It’s kind of a take it leave it thing

[SmokinAces2000]

Either suck it up or breakup

[LiamJHayden]

Laser