Do you think you qualify to be a trophy husband or trophy wife?

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A trophy wife or husband is someone who has leveraged their physical attractiveness to find a spouse who may be less attractive, or older, but who is usually relatively affluent and can provide their trophy spouse very comfortable lifestyle.

I read an opinion earlier today from a girl who referred to herself as a trophy wife. When I clicked on her profile picture, the image I saw was someone who looked very average - not ugly at all but not particularly attractive, either.

My question is not whether you are a real prize for a partner based on all your attributes and qualities. No, I am asking: Is your physical appearance so far above average that you could entice an affluent person to marry you solely because of your attractiveness?

TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

No.

I would need rhinoplasty, skin lasering, lip fillers, blepharoplasty, minor sclerotherapy. I suspect I'd need breast augmentation (they are just fine, in my opinion) and a platysmaplasty to tighten everything up, even though there's no excess fat, ha. I would also need lasering for permanent overall hair removal. I would likely need braces again (even though my teeth are fine). That's just the larger picture.

The details would require me to have my hair bleached and re-dyed to a lighter blonde. I would need frequent skin lasering to maintain clear, unfreckled or minor freckles skin. I would need lip filler maintainance and other fillers as I age. I would need a weekly or bi-weekly mani/pedi and roughly 2 to 3 hours a day to work out.

I would also need to have no opinion on anything. I would need to be perfectly agreeable all the time and never have an idea that differed from the man's. My life would be designed to support the opinions and ideas of the man.

Y'all should check out Netflix's Uglies. It's really interesting...

I'll pass.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Lol. That depends on who’s asking. Some would say yes and others no bc it’s based on THEIR perspective of the type of PRIZE I am, not mine.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Trying to be a trophy husband—the ultimate eye candy in the world of relationships? Well, my 32-year-old self might not quite make the cut, but I sure try to dress like it! 😉 In reality, it's all about flaunting your true charm and unique connection, not just a pretty face. Glamour fades, but charm and dazzling blue eyes last! Relationships built on love and mutual respect are the real trophies in life. Wishing you all the romantic adventures, my friend! 💖✨

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Avicenna · Answer

LOL, no, especially not at my age. However, when I was 47, a 55-year-old woman asked me to be her friends with benefits and to accompany her on business and to social gatherings. I thought that was pretty ingenious because I would have been a plausible partner.

HawkPerception · Answer

I do not. I'm not financially stable (yet). I'm average looking, with probably slightly under average height (5'9). I'm pretty fit, and I'd LIKE to say I'm intelligent and can handle conversations and social scenarios relatively okay.

Truthfully, I'm nothing special. Someone would see me and be like "Just another average dude." And due to where I am in life currently, I think I'd be considered much less than average.

AviatorTom · Answer

I would hope my wife considers me a trophy, but it's not because I have Trophy Husband qualities. 😏

fartingspinster · Answer

My mom was a trophy wife LMAO
And I knew that as a kid too...
People say I look like her, but I dont think so. She's much prettier when she was my age.
I feel like my features are slowly maturing, im 30 but people still think im 19 /

Anyway, i find i could be a trophy wife for certain populations... like African, south east Asian, Middle East, eastern European. I find I fit the beauty standards for those populations, but its a hit or miss when it comes to white folk lol. But if its an older white male... prolly could work, I tend to get more attention from older men than my own peers
So to answer your question... could I be a second generation trophy wife? Yeah...
I know what it entails. But would I ever? No. It ended in a horrible divorce and left me with years of distrust of men. I'd never put myself in that position EVER

CheeseMonster · Answer

Trophy spouse can be more about attitude and lifestyle than physical form. Most trophy spouses wouldn't look half as good without the money to pay for high-end fashion, makeup/meds/procedures, and diet/fitness trainers/programs/suppliments afforded by their more-affluent spouse.

I bet I could be a trophy husband given enough money and dedication to cultivate my style and appearance. However, a wealthy spouse cannot give me dedication. So I cannot be a trophy husband. Oh well, I don't want to be a husband anyways.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Not at all. Not do I want to.

I’m a plain Jane 😊.

My daughter can be one…but I am raising her to focus on her inner beauty.
I can’t trick her anymore… she has learned that she is pretty… at this point…

she has build some confidence, and using her brain to win rather than her appreance.

Hobobobo · Answer

I don't know, but I hope not. If I am ever seen or treated as such, I would immediately course correct and do everything I can to remove that perception. That seems like one of the worst labels a person could bear.

And for a person to accept this label as a self-identification seems like a severe mental issue to me.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Wouldn't go so far as trophy, but maybe plaque husand? I've been working out a lot so yea, when were out, she can show me off as I strut and flex and let the other ladies sulk.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Physically maybe not? I just look younger than my age. Nothing special about me. I'm not that much tall.

I may have good personality and behavior. Open minded. But I'm not rich and affluent guy. I'm a simple guy and love simplicity in my life. That's all.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I'm attractive, independent and smart, definitely above average... but I wouldn't degrade myself to a  trophy wife  :D I have self-respect too, you know :D

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t think trophy spouses are always super hot. They’re just someone who is less wealthy than their spouse and usually younger than their spouse who feels elevated by marrying them. They’re usually quite elegant and can emulate the manners of the upper class even though they weren’t born into it.

NathanDavis · Answer

definitely above average yes but not "far above" give me six months thought, and I would be ready for auction...

Surely · Answer

Being someone’s trophy. 🏆 Is more than looks to me. After all. You still need to live with the entire package. Just being compatible is a great start. Regardless of what the outside package looks like.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Its possible someone could see me as a trophy, but i don't see it. I really need to like who I am with, not just based on looks. Personality is 1st.

alice55 · Answer

I could easily be one by appearance alone but I hate rich people and their ways of thinking they disgust me so I rather stay away from them

debbiedenise · Answer

Oh gosh no. Not all at 42. I think at best I may be a 5 out of 10.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Who knows but I don't really have any desire to be that it's a pointless and shallow existence.

molonski2 · Answer

No , I could have one but could not be one.. That would never work.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. I'm a trophy friend, but a horrible partner long term. Not that I cheat or beat, but I get bored in romances and tend to be overly judgmental. Longest one I've had was 298 days.

HungTexan · Answer

When I was younger I’d probably qualify, but I don’t think it works at my age. Lol

Staximus · Answer

I'm not the kind of guy most women want to show off in public. Most women just want me to fix their problems and leave

exitseven · Answer

I am definitely a trophy husband. The problem is that this is the trophy.

douride2 · Answer

No thanks I will pass. I wouldn't want the hassle.

Wayneg89 · Answer

Definitely not! I'm not unattractive by any means but I'm usually the less attractive one in my relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

nobody on this site or the wider internet in general qualifies as trophy material

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lovisa1995 · Answer

What makes someone a 'trophy' though? Some people think that an Instagram influencer or bodybuilder is a trophy, whereas I don't...

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

no, i couldnt stay home and js look pretty for a man. id have no self respect left.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I’d say our looks are equally attractive and we both have money.

MemeSupreme · Answer

comfortable lifestyle? nope i got too many issues for that lol

Joshydavid25 · Answer

My physical appearance is pretty good, above average, but I don't know if it's enough to be a trophy husband.. LOL..

blackeagle007 · Answer

Trophy wives? Where do you get those? 😎

MikeRJ · Answer

Why would anyone want to be a "trophy?"

Anonymous · Answer

I like to believe so. He treats me so...

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No I’m too ugly

masterSir · Answer

I am, because I'm rich.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I don't think so.

LissaMH · Answer

Because i am hot and beautiful

DJB72 · Answer

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Agape93 · Answer

Definitely not

Chargirllll · Answer

Yes I do

Dongie · Answer

Nope.

Maria90_ · Answer

Of course I would.

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