Did you ever have a crush on someone who already has a boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Matias2003]

Yesterday I went to the birthday party of a friend of my parents. I was introduced to the girlfriend of someone my brother knows from a football club he often goes to. I was immediately attracted to her and I couldn't stop staring at her. I ocassionally talked to her. She reminded me a little of Amy from Big Bang Theory because of her appearence and how she was dressed. I got a little upset when she left. When I returned home I thought a little about her and today when I woke up I immediately started to think about her despite knowing she already has a boyfriend. I mean I'm not upset she has a boyfriend surprisingly. I'm just upset I have a crush on someone ALREADY KNOWING she has a boyfriend

[HollyK21]

People don’t just become unattractive because they’re seeing someone lol I think having a crush is very normal so long as you aren’t acting on it.

[Matias2003]

I don't know if I'll even see that girl again though but I find it a little likely a will

[HollyK21]

It’s always possible that you could run into her but it doesn’t mean you’re going to feel the same whenever that time comes, could be years from now or never at all. Just cross that bridge when you come to it and in the mean time focus on yourself.

[Matias2003]

But if I do see her again at a similar event I'll still talk to her even if I don't have feelings for her anymore by then. I still am interested in seeing her again

[HollyK21]

That’s fine

[strateguy632]

I did, a few times.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it happened a couple of times.