My Wife Has Cheated On Me Twice With The Same Person?

[Matanatana]

She cheated once and I forgave her she insisted she want to stay in this relationship, six months later I had a suspicion then I found the same number on her phone, she denied contacting him but later through digging she confessed it and a sorry again, what should I really do?

[D_Bone_Steak]

When you forgave her the first time... she got the message that she can do this and get away with it. I'm sorry bro and obviously you don't want to do this, but you need to break up with her... I mean you wouldn't of forgiven her if you weren't trying to make it work but it's not going to work. She's busy fucking around on the side of your relationship.

And remember the rule of 3... you found out about this one guy so that means there is at least 2 others you don't even know about. I was once just like you and it only got me random STD's that came from nowhere when I wasn't even cheating... someone brought the STDs into the relationship but I got nothing but denials through talk except for one night when she said "It must of been that Mexican guy" like what the fuck, what Mexican guy? She doesn't even remember a damn name. I have no idea when or why she fucked some Mexican guy. But I had enough information to know she's nothing but a slut and it was time to get away from her.

Get away from her bro... the pussy might be the best, but you're torturing yourself by trying to make it work with someone that just fucks other people on the side while you're trying to have a real relationship. To be real with you, the only way you're going to make it work is to become just like her and start cheating just like her. I don't suggest it because I did this too. It became a competition where I would fuck 10 girls for every time I even suspected her of cheating. No trust, and it was bullshit in the long run. The only good part about it was being able to rub her shit and my cheating in her face everytime she figured out I was fucking some chick. Don't bother with that if your heart is set on something that is more real that being with a slut you cheat on and treat like a dirty slut and hate more than you love.

sorry for making this so long, but I had to speak on it. Hope the best for you dude.

[Finchie40]

Kick her to the curb where she belongs , and find yourself a girl that actually loves you and stays loyal to you , because she doesn’t love you bro , she likes the convenience of you , call an attorney and file for a divorce , life is too short to be with someone that truly doesn’t love and value you , she wouldn’t be spreading her legs to another guy period if she actually loved you

[Danielle93]

At this point, you only have two options. Either turn it into an open marriage where both of you involve other people (then it would no longer be cheating) or if you have enough self-respect, realize she's not committed to you and file for divorce.

Once was enough for her to change but twice!!! She's never going to stop cheating.

[HelpfulWoman]

you stayed with a cheater and thought you'd get anything good out of it?
fool is you. you thought a turd was a diamond.

[lightbulb27]

Been to counseling, figured out what going on? That be good before pullong plug. Intil then, she gets tracked and open access to all devices. No trust.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

She's sorry she got caught not that she cheated you either be okay with it or leave those are the honest two answers

[slatyb]

So what are you going to do? End the marriage, or accept that she is not exclusive to you?

[Oldschool1981]

Personally, I would embrace it. However, I get low key turned on when I'm cheated on

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't like to get involved in people's marriages and family but I don't think she's going to stop.

The decision is yours to make.

[jahaims]

Have some self respect ya simp

[fish5505_87]

You gave her a shot, she blew it, Bye!

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Because you forgave her that's why

[Anonymous]

Divorce