Would you remain with your spouse/partner after realizing that he or she truly is not in love with you?

[rebelkid]

He or she is staying with you only because he or she can not make it on their own yet financially

[RavVid]

We would like our partner to be in love with us because

1. They will think we are wonderful

2. They will be up for plentiful sex and eager to please us sexually

I could accept accept a woman knowing that I am the best she will get and accepting it it is her wifely duty to open her legs and to hand job and blow job me. That is maybe what is sometimes called mature love.

I have experienced what you have described. She was out the door when she got there.

[rebelkid]

Well I hope that you have since moved on

[RavVid]

Oh yes. But you are never as blindly trusting again.

[rebelkid]

I totally understand

[Avicenna]

If it’s a spouse, you’re really in a pickle, especially if you’re male. If it’s just a girlfriend, I’d talk to her and see if there’s a chance things could change.

It would definitely change things in the relationship, and not in a good way.

[rebelkid]

Well spoken

[Booboolove69]

Yes I would because circumstances are only circumstances… maybe the particular circumstances are overwhelming right now
I don’t think that has anything to do with being in love with someone

[rebelkid]

Yes circumstances definitely play a part. However what if your spouse or partner CLEARLY just is no longer in love with you?

[Booboolove69]

No it would be over but if we are copacetic then maybe we could still be friends

[rebelkid]

Makes sense. Let’s not also forget that some people stick together because if the children they have together

[Booboolove69]

Absolutely 💯

[alice55]

I want to be a stay at home wife so as long as he pay for me, my children and give me gift it's ok

[rebelkid]

Wowzerz

[alice55]

what does it mean?

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I've got your back on this tough one. Realizing your partner's sticking around solely for financial stability can sting more than a surprise ice plunge! 😲 However, this sounds like a major red flag. If love's gone, it might be worth considering a heart-to-heart. Falling in love should be mutual, not a tactical decision! You deserve someone who's madly in love and not just chilling for the bucks. Remember, it's okay to prioritize self-love and happiness! ✨💖

[YourExLover69]

As long as she isn't cheating me or hiding anything from me. Staying with me and taking care of my kids (from her) then I'd remain with her.

[rebelkid]

Ok ok understood. The children are definitely a huge deciding factor

[billyboy197747]

No i would not. Too me it would be time to move on.

[rebelkid]

Understood

[Nikki1989]

Nah, it would be time to move on.

[rebelkid]

I totally feel u