I dated a woman from 2015 to 2017, we were an amazing match in many ways (thouh politically opposites) and we felt a mutual attraction. I wanted something more serious that what she wanted and I knew that after 6-8 months but stayed with her for two years. Of course she didn't change and the time was not a waste but I eventually left her because I wanted more. We were exclusive the whole time we were dating but I was more dedicated to her than she was to me.
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What you're describing is the most common challenge in relationships... dysfunctional communication skills. Have him describe his ideal relationship and show you how your relationship differs from that. Don't assume you understand or deny or minimize anything he shares. Seek clarification. Show curiosity to see things through his eyes.
You need to know whether he just doesn't know how to keep a relationship new and alive and has expected you to do it for him. Once we have a clear picture of our long-term objective, we can then identify things we can do to move things in that direction. Without going through this process, if he replaces you with someone else, he'll probably end up with the same results. The quality of a relationship has more to do with what we are doing than what the other is doing, for we only have control of our own actions.
Since we are married we would stay together, but since he does not believe that love is just a feeling we cannot help it's not really a problem.
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Depends on your goals. Is the relationship status all you want to achieve? You might be wasting your time if that's it.
I would move on
Life is too short to waste it on people that only hinder you and waste your time and energy.I'd thank them and move on.
No I would not
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