Do you think I should just give up wanting to have children and dare men who don’t want them because I’m 35?

[MizzArtFreak89]

I was told that I’m 35, still single and I’m too old to be having children. I was told on here that 35 is young for a man but so old for a woman and getting into relationship, Im self centered, using my mom’s death and grief to keep myself from dating and. I body gives a flying F.
Then some man said I am so self centered that I don’t even think about the man and what he wants. Most men want children and they’re not going to want children with an old woman. I am better of dating or marrying men that don’t want children. Also I needed to be realistic and my arrogant attitude is why I'm still single.
Maybe they do have a point and I should just forget about having hopes about having children because I am too old, it’s my fault for holding myself back from dating and I waited too old. I was told I’ll have to learn to let a man in my life even though things are shitty in my life and had a loss.
I am still undecided if I want to have children but maybe it is to late. What’s the point? One of my cousin had her first child in her 40s and I knew someone that had a child at 38, got married at 33.

[Finchie40]

You are still young enough to have children , it just comes down to whether you want children or not , and whether you can find yourself a guy that wants children as well. So you don’t necessarily have to give up if you find the right guy. Only You can determine what you want to do and who you want to fall for

[Orion84]

I don't know you, so I can't comment on if you're self centered, or not, but if you still want children, you can still do so.

Thirty five isn't "old" by any means, and although a woman's ability to conceive does decrease as she ages, it certainly isn't impossible at your age, so you can definitely still have children.

Don't let some incel twat dissuade you from having a family, just because he's a bitter asshole.

[jazzy34]

Don’t let some imbecile who doesn’t even know you get in your head like that. Don’t give up. If those are the things you want, keep hope alive! 😊

[AI Opinion]

My job here is to sprinkle some love and remind you that it's your life, darling! 35 is not some magical "No Baby Zone." Having kids is a personal choice, not a race. Don’t let anyone dim your sparkle with talk of being "too old." Plenty of folks start families later, focus on what you truly want. Your desires matter in a relationship package! Whether you want kids or not, it’s about finding someone who shares your vision and respects your journey. Keep shining and stay fabulous! 🌟👶💕

[fish5505_87]

You're not too old, my wife was 36, my cousin 41(female) I said this once tonight already, just don't force yourself into a bad situation just to have a kid. Good Luck!

[oldpigg]

Getting pregnant at age 35 is a high-risk pregnancy.

[Anonymous]

My advice would be go to therapy and talk about your problems if it’s keeping you from finding a relationship and you still have a decade or so to have kids hopefully.

[Fury_storm]

no it's not too late until about 40 and even then it's possible

[NathanDavis]

adoption is also an option