What are the top 3 things you dislike in men?

Question

3 things superficially

and

3 things that go beyond superficial.

if you have more than 3 for each you can post them too but at least post 3 things that would make you not want to date or marry that person superficially and other 3 other things that may not be so superficial but just as important to deter you from selecting that man as your partner.

this is just to give the men ideas of how they can improve according to the masses, since I asked it for us women as well.

14gurlz2gagonit · Accepted Answer

1) When their girl is really into me and she's showing it, he gets pissed off at me instead at her. She's the one disrespecting you bro... your bitch choose me, you should be mad at her.

2) Not all men, but you know the weak ones. Blue pilled to the point of trying to be a white knight for girls they don't even know, more of a bitch than a bitch, mentally unstable and resembles one of those blue haired communist Democrats in thought, and they literally can't even play video games they're so lame... I can't stand them.

3) Homosexuals... again not all, I just don't like the ones that hit on me. I don't have any phoebe or fear of them... I mean for fucks sake I drove my gay friends around for hours hitting different stores because he really wanted that new Brittany Spears album (that's a real fucking story, I don't bull shit you). No the homosexuals I don't like are the ones that think they can "change my mind" or some bullshit. Nugga if I show up at the gay club with a bunch of chicks and you see me hitting on every lesbian in there, then why you even trying fool. I'm not interested in you.

That was 3 right? I could come up with more... but I'll stop at 3. Before I stop, like after I nutted and kind of keep pumping to see if the chick gets me hard again for round 2, I'm going to say this. Some pissed of beta bitch is going to chew me out because he's offended by what I said here... especially if he stopped reading before this point. If that happens, how much you want to bet he fits into one of the 3 reasons I listed? Those guys are the ones that will give me a Karen shit test instead of a high five when I talk a drunk chick into flashing me and the boys her tiddie. Even my gay ass homie would hi five me for that shit... more bitch than a bitch. I hate that shit. Just don't be that guy if you're a guy.

EzraIsShy76028 · Accepted Answer

3 superficially and 3 beyond superficially? Let's see, um...

For 3 superficially:

1. How a lot of men don't groom themselves at all.

2. How some men think it's gay to wipe their ass.

3. How a lot of men don't do the bare minimum in terms of fashion for occasions that would require dressing slightly nicer.

For 3 beyond superficially:

1. How some men always wanna be the alpha male. Like they constantly have something to prove and are trying to compensate for something.

2. How some men blame women for all the problems in their lives, but don't stop to look at themselves first. If you're badly groomed and an asshole maybe the problem is you, not women.

3. How some men absolutely hate more feminine men. It's like Jesus fucking Christ it's not a big deal. You normally don't see women hating on tomboys or butch lesbians.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Hey, lovely! As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some love and wisdom, I totally get where you’re coming from. Superficially, some turn-offs might be poor hygiene, lack of style, or bad manners—think about those cringe-worthy imaginary first date moments. Going deeper, red flags might include emotional unavailability, consistent dishonesty, or a lack of ambition. Keep in mind, it’s all about finding the right vibe that clicks with you. Chemistry and compatibility are the real MVPs in any love story. Keep shining and finding what you deserve! 💖✨

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Summeroflove · Answer

All men are different the same as all women. Number one people choose who they are not based off characteristics they are born with and number two saying that one sex or the other just simply can’t help that they are the way they are takes accountability away. If someone’s born with downs syndrome and can’t do long division… Is that their fault? No it’s not.

But there are some things that are more predominantly a mens issue (there are issues that are primarily women) that’s not to say that there isn’t women who can’t display these behaviors and it’s not to say that all or even the majority of men act that way.

The number one thing is men who just white knight a woman because she looks good. How good someone looks depends on the effort someone puts into their physical appearance. Others have brought this up but it’s true. If you’re taking up for someone because you genuinely agree with them or believe they are in the right that’s one thing.

Men who pretend to be overly macho don’t get me wrong these men are probably holding a lot of pain and trauma inside. Many of them have been shamed for having any feelings whether that’s sadness, depression, fear, anger, or anything else. Until eventually they just can’t take it anymore. But it’s also men who just keep one another trapped in this cycle. Where you’re not allowed to have any emotions. It makes you weak in the end and destroys a person. Sometimes you the point of a complete mental breakdown and even suicide.

Third thing that would have to be feeling entitled to another person. Don’t get me wrong there is women too who act like this. Chasing someone who wants absolutely nothing to do with you makes no sense. Why not find someone whose genuinely interested? I guess it’s obsession maybe for some it’s the thrill of a chase. But I don’t get what makes someone feel romantically or sexually entitled to another human being.

Honorable mentions I think it’s assuming because some chick is a stay at home mom that she will never cheat. That’s not true narcissists and other dark personalities will pretend to be anything they think you want them to be. They will use religion and politics to get what they are wanting. Many are wanting a easy ride in life and men need to be very aware of this.

HawkPerception · Answer

The majority of men (that I've seen anyways) have no social tact. They don't know when to say something and when not to say something. Many are extremely awkward.

Many are overly aggressive and care too much about stuff that doesn't matter.

Many don't care about equality. They expect women to do everything for them... cooking, cleaning, and kids-wise.

Apulu_backagain · Answer

I'm not talking about all men but most men, and it's pretty bad cuz I belong to India which is probably the worst case of misogyny.

Arrogance, what makes them think they're better than everything? Like sir, you barely live independently.

Tendency to objectify women. Like if a woman doesn't want to stay with you then why do you get upset? She's not a toy that you can just have according to your will.

Crying about 'how women torment them and take their money during divorce'. So Indian men or I guess men in general have this real real bad habit to try to make it all about themselves. Like I was watching an insta reel about a SA survivor and it was pretty moving. The comment section however was filled with men saying 'What about all the money you all steal after divorce?'. Like sir, you need to have money for someone to steal it and you didn't just say that loud with the fact that India has the lowest divorce rate in the world.

Victim blaming, a lot of it.

Can't tolerate women being loved and treated right by the right kind of men.

Use facts which aren't even valid in an argument against misogyny. I was having a whole debate with the person about why misogyny is wrong a being a feminist is the right way because it talks about equal opportunities for both the sexes. He said that the definition of feminist which I was saying is wrong, I said it's in Oxford and Cambridge dictionary, in school textbooks? He said that just because it is there doesn't mean it's a right definition.

And I can go on and on about this whole thing. The only right man I've ever known is my dad and no one else but I believe there are good men out there.

FreyaRed · Answer

1. Sadism, being cruel to others just to satisfy someone's ego is disgusting.
2. Lack of self control, falling in tantrums or uncontrolled admiration is childish in my opinion.
3. Lack of situational awareness. Girls can allow themselves to be sometimes a bit guffy, however not too often. We will laugh it away and no one will care. Man who can't predict some embarrassing or unpleasant situations is useless and very likely in attempt to satisfy his ego, he becomes uncontrolled aggressive point 1.+ 2. Or he appears to be a dumb.. s. Dumb girl is still attractive for most men, a dumb man absolutely not, this is hardwired in human mind.

HighValue · Answer

So, 6 things in total?

1. Discs or earrings.

2. Talking crap online, but not willing to meet IRL on streetbeefs to legally solve a dispute.

3. Paying to win at games.

4. Lying with false praise/compliments to women to try to get their attention/approval. (That is why so many average or unattractive women think they look good. Also because they don't understand math and how average/mean works.)

5. Lying to themselves claiming that strength and size doesn't matter and only skill/practice does. ( If that was the case, little kids could beat many adults.)

6. Pretending that the size of their private parts is why they can't get a partner. (People don't walk around nude. It is more likely due to an unattractive face, short height, weak arms, or very overweight.)

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Can I speak on things that make me think how do women put up with THIS? Because I'm a straight dude, and not interested in men romantically at all.

Here are my easy non-superficial 3:

Complacency: No motivation, no goals, no forward motion towards frickin' anything in his life. HOW could you tolerate this, ladies? HOW? Stagnation is utterly unacceptable to me.
He can't clean up the scruff or be bothered to present himself well. And I don't just mean on the first date. I mean in life in general; health, hygiene, fashion sense, manners; everything. Why and how would you ever want to be with someone who isn't at least trying to take good care of himself?
Vulgar or unimaginative sense of humor.

aceleon · Answer

They don't have a sense of autonomy, they are mostly pack animals that abides the mainstream even if it is clearly fucked up and will defend it on top of that.

They lack self respect, they will put up with every shit as long as you give them what they want in the end, they don't even have the pride of a dog.

Superficial and boring, it is always about money, work, the car needing to be fixed, the money they need to put in to their card etc etc

Gwendoline · Answer

1. How easily they can be manipulated & controlled by predatory women.

2. How sometimes they don't listen when they are horny. I've had full conversations go over my man's head because I was looking hot.

3. Self destructive behaviour when they are depressed, bereaved, lonely or hurt emotionally.

I think it's important as women to take care and protect the men in our lives and men have so many good qualities.

Jay-_- · Answer

1. When they try to make me look bad because a RANDOM woman is around.

2. when they confuse confidence with ego

3. when they have to make up things about you because of their insecurities.

4. when they say "it's just a joke" but deep down it really wasn't.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

"this is just to give the men ideas of how they can improve according to the masses"

People are individuals, there is no "opinion of the masses".

You need to improve your comprehension skills if you wish to give people advice on such a broad scale.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Rude, manipulators, and smell - then again most women can also be rather butch or downright bitchy to me.

So I feel like I'm often better in my own company of me, myself and I and my gods 💖🙏🏻

MrChinaski · Answer

You mean apart from the narcissism, the domestic violence and the misogyny? No apart from that I think are all around great guys. What do you think?

Nikki1989 · Answer

Insecurity, immaturity, bad manners, poor hygiene, laziness. I could go on and on.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Lack of hygiene, struggling to take accountability and not being able to control there emotions

Agape93 · Answer

Many don't understand proper foreplay.  Mansplaining.  Bad hygiene.

Anonymous · Answer

1) Being disrespectful to me (or anyone else) 2) Being arrogant or thinking too highly of himself 3) Not embracing his (healthy) masculinity

exitseven · Answer

They have all this weird hair They have all these strange lumps and bumps They smell bad.

Simslover92 · Answer

I just have one. Arrogance.

Sluttt · Answer

Thier brain is small, focus on body too much, active all the time no relax,

BarryLiverstone · Answer

That the worst 5% of men can have to capacity to murder, rape, abuse

AnTina101 · Answer

Clingy, bad in bed, no career or ambition

Anonymous · Answer

Well that's 6 things.

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

Yet you went anon for this

DrPepper12 · Answer

Penis, balls, hair.

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