Girls, Girls help ur brother out on this one?

[Anonymous]

Soo am asking this question from girls specifically, like what to do in this certain situation i am into, i have been with this girl since about 3 years now and i had 2 female friends who were like a sister to me because they didint had a brother soo they saw me as their brother too, but my girlfriend was somehow uncomfortable with this soo i just didint talk to those two cuz like she mattered more to me, and now she added a guy who is like 8 years older on her instagram and says he is her friend and is like a bro to her, now when i was trying to tell her to block him she got mad and told me that its just a "study" friend she has whom she like studies medical stuff, (we about to get our jobs soon and she into medical field). i dont even know what to say like now i feel like the only thing missing from my face is a joker makeup ;-; suggest me something please.

[SueShe]

You study medicine yet both of you, your girlfriend and you, seem to act like immature teenagers.

In most relationships, having "friends" of the opposite gender is perceived as something that is not possible because society has made a great job at stating that a grown man and a grown woman cannot just be platonic friends.

That is how your girlfriend perceives it and now that she has the opportunity to prove her case, she is also having a male "friend".

Once people accept the fact that it is indeed possible to have platonic friends of the opposite gender, then this self-made problem will disappear on its own. The only problem is that males have not to be slaves of their testosterone and want to jump every female that is remotely attractive.

[Nikki1989]

I hope that is not your real age. If so, you have some growing up to do, and fast.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, lovebirds and their complex flight patterns! 🎭 In your situation, it sounds like you're caught between flying the flag of trust and steering the ship of fairness. Balancing friendships while in a relationship is tricky. It's important to express your feelings without the red flag of jealousy waving high.

Remind her of the sacrifices you made, like distancing from your 'sister' friends, and how this situation mirrors that. A little heart-to-heart with her about fairness and trust might do wonders, darling. Remember, relationships thrive on mutual respect and communication. Now, go sprinkle some love dust on that chat! 🧡✨