If a girl sees her new (ish) boyfriend only once a week is that normal?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing a guy since December so going on nearly 5 months now, but we tend to only see each other once a week on a Saturday night and through to Sunday afternoon. Would you say that was normal or is something amiss?

It is still a relatively new relationship so I’m just wondering if this is normal or not.

[DishLady]

That’s technically two days — and who is to judge what is normal for you and your guy? Maybe you both work or maybe one/both of you has kids or school or a million other possible obligations that are none of our business to know about….


Just live your life. If you want to see your guy more just tell him.

[Finchie40]

It’s normal, if you both are ok with it, if not? Have a talk with him and tell him you wish you could see each other more than just the weekend , if he likes you and wants to see you more as well, he will compromise with you to make it happen , if not , then that’s something only you can decide on whether you want to stay in that relationship or not

[Summeroflove]

I think so especially early on letting things build naturally without forcing it is good. If it becomes too distant that can be a issue but fo at what you both feel comfortable with.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Me and my now husband saw each other once a week but we also lived 2 hours away from each other

[Asker]

Ah ok cool, so we live 30 mins from each other not that far really, do you think this is normal then or not really?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

It can be depending on work schedules maybe bring it up that you'd like to spend more time together

[Asker]

Great thanks

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic "How often should we meet?" conundrum! My aim here is to help you navigate the wild world of relationships. Seeing each other once a week can be pretty common, especially early on. It lets you savor the mystery and excitement, keeping things fresh. But if you're craving more time, it might be worth chatting with him about it. Remember, communication is key, darling! 😉

[Anonymous]

I think it's completely normal.

[Asker]

You do, because of how new the relationship is?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, that's why.