One night stand with army guy, was it bad?

[Anonymous]

So I've slept with the army guy that I've been talking to for the past few months even though I'm in a relationship and I don't know if I should feel bad for doing that to my partner and if I should tell my partner or just forget about it.

[Finchie40]

Well the truth is you don’t truly love your boyfriend, if you did , you wouldn’t be cheating on him period. Think how you would feel if Your boyfriend did this to you? So my advice to you is to end your relationship with your boyfriend and let him go , so he can find someone that truly loves him , You don’t have to tell him you screwed someone else , just tell him you don’t want to be in a relationship with him anymore and that you want to date other people. If you don’t end your relationship with him , then you are a selfish person that only cares about what you feel is best for yourself , you will be lying to your boyfriend’s face every time you tell him you love him because you truly don’t love him , you only love yourself. So the right thing to do is break up with him so he can find true love with someone that wouldn’t cheat on him period. As for you just remain single u til you realize what it means to be in a relationship with someone so you don’t cheat on someone again

[AviatorTom]

To answer your question, put yourself in your partner's shoes. If your partner did what you've done, what would you want to happen? Then do that.

[HollyK21]

You definitely should. You’ve been emotionally cheating for months, talking about lord knows what. To actually have sex is simply adding insult to injury. This isn’t a simple one night stand with someone dude you met on a drunk night out, you put effort into this, you led up to this. Your partner deserves to know, so that he can decide if he sees a future with someone like you and if he can forgive what you’ve done. To rob him of that choice is selfish.

[AI Opinion]

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[Asker]

The things is I don't feel guilty for sleeping with someone else while still in the relationship

[DonaldDarko]

Just imagine how you would feel if your partner did it to you if you want to know if it was wrong or not. That you don't just automatically know tells me you should probably just stay away from relationships all together, they obviously mean very little to you.

[lightbulb27]

unwise... playing with fire and creating drama.

break up with the boyfriend and find another. unless he's as un trustworthy as you are and you are a match.

[Anonymous]

Does your partner expect that you are being faithful to him?

[Asker]

Do you mean accept or expect, because no he does not expect me to be unfaithful to him and I don't think he would be accepting of me being unfaithful to him if I blatantly told him.

[dougeats]

tell them or invite for a triad relationship

[Asker]

I wish I could do that, but my boyfriend is strictly mono

[RedInnocent69]

Um, talking about for the past few months doesn’t sound like a one night stand. Don’t tell until you’re ready to end the relationship

[Makeushiver]

Has your partner ever done similar?

[Asker]

By similar you mean slept with someone else, then no

[MrChinaski]

No, there is nothing wrong.

[Asker]

Why do you believe that there's nothing wrong with it?

[MrChinaski]

Look. It's wrong that you cheated on your partner. But it's all bygones now. Telling your partner is just going to hurt them.

All you can control is the future. If you want an open relationship in some form or other... and there are so many different forms of open relationships... you should talk to your partner about that. Don't expect to reach an agreement in one conversation. In the meantime, stop cheating on him.

My 2c

[MrChinaski]

Hopefully that makes sense and clarifies my comment.

[Asker]

Ah ok, yeah I've stopped since I don't even have the energy to talk to anyone anymore

[Hellraiser1984]

You don't deserve your partner. Cheating harlot

[Asker]

I wish I was a harlot, but I'm only a cheater so.

[EmmiL]

Yes you should feel bad, you're a slut

[Tempest_Flame]

you should tell your partner

[jahaims]

Disgusting trash

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I think of cheaters, especially if there's constant attention and love shown by the other person, but since they weren't talking to me and when bringing it up all they did was apologize but not change anything

[MasterKS]

you enjoyed? how it was? you done it so let it be.