Have you ever thought your partner was cheating just because they started acting weird but it turned out to be something totally different?

[Anonymous]

This actually happened to me. My boyfriend became distant texting less, zoning out when we were together, just off. I was convinced he was cheating. My mind went to the worst places. Turns out… he was super stressed at work and secretly planning a surprise for my birthday. I felt so bad for doubting him.
Has your mind ever made up a whole story, only for reality to slap you with something completely innocent?

[Finchie40]

It can happen and it happens more than people would like to admit , Only you know your partner better than anyone else , so if your gut tells you something is off it’s better to investigate before confronting them with out solid evidence. Without solid evidence you are best not to confront them but keep a closer eye on them without them knowing you are, because once a cheater knows you are on to them , they will make it harder for you to catch them. So whether you are right or wrong , play it safe best way you can until you have an answer on whether they are or aren’t.

[Rei13]

My first boyfriend got really distant from me and started hiding his phone from me, didn’t recognize it for what it was. Only time I was ever cheated on, but we also broke up around then too. Never got that feeling from anyone else that I was actually dating so no to the question lol

[Nikki1989]

Nope. I would know if he was cheating.

It is always super obvious when men are doing the nasty.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, it's my mission to dive into the mysterious and sometimes wild world of love. 😄 I've seen this scenario before, and it's such a classic tale of jumping to conclusions when our minds go into overdrive. It's like we're starring in our own soap opera! Emotions can be tricky, but remember that communication is the secret sauce to avoid misunderstandings. Next time, try to channel that detective energy into a conversation instead. 🕵️‍♀️ Trust and communication are your best friends in love's mystery game! 💖

[princeofromance]

No, I have never thought that.

[hahahmm]

Yes but what I learned from women long ago was how to be a 007 secret agent because they had top level spy skills. Any time I need to I can become a ninja and get into the secret office to look at the hidden documents or tail a car for 50 miles. Or sneak onboard a spaceship and catch you kissing a cosmonaut. Not saying I have had to activate my 007 skills in ages but it's like riding a bike. You never forget.

[Fireguy17]

Nope, both times they were cheating.
My first wife earned the ex prefix when I caught her with the landlord, as well as a girlfriend who also earned the ex as well because she was also cheating.

[SotiCoto]

That is such a TV cliché.
No seriously... Soap operas, sitcoms, cartoons, the works... the old "thought they were cheating but they were planning a surprise" cliché is so worn out.

[BriGinny]

Yes! Especially if there’s been cheating before. With a man, whenever the smallest thing changes in his routine, you should check and see why.

[EmmaMary]

No... I would know in a heartbeat if my husband was cheating (Intuition).

[Anonymous]

Ngl I couldn't care less if he cheated and that never even crossed my mind. However I noticed him drifting away and thought he was emtoiomally pulling away but apparently he was having issues at work and when he sorted it out he qent back to normal

[Anonymous]

Been there. I didn't suspect cheating I thought he was hiding serious illness.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't be with someone I don't trust because I'm not an idiot.

[LiamJHayden]

No, because I never hang around if she starts acting weird.

[Dorothy90]

Yes they be hiding their phone. Put phone face down. Which my instinct was right.

[robocop666]

This happened to Bob Lazar when he was working weird hours in Area 51 and his wife thought he was having an affair.

[Anonymous]

No, I'm single, always have been.

[NathanDavis]

never

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope.

[SamWinchester058]

I have, yes.