11 moFor me, and at this point of my life, love is too much work and I no longer value "love" as even a good thing in most circumstances. If I don't have love come easy, I'm not even going to try and get any.
Basically I view it like this, if the cost outweighs the result, then what's the fucking point?
I mean I'm to the point that I pity people that try... and they just get manipulated, betrayed, ripped off, sponged off of, weighed down with obligations that don't even serve their own best interest, and then hung out to dry when they fail at accepting it like a hen pecked chicken or to meet expectations. People can try that shit with me, and I view them being mad or hating me as a plus... less bullshit I have to deal with.
I'm not judging others that obsess about it... just do shit that people love about you. I lift weights and cook... bitches seem to like that. I get love. But I do that shit for me first and foremost and I just get all the bitches.

Start asking for bullshit though and you can go cry about it 21 Reply- 11 mo
Tee hee
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11 moI can’t necessarily say I wouldn’t kill for my hypothetical significant other or spouse. Murder I wouldn’t perform for them but kill for out mutual preservation against some sort of act of violence I cannot rule out.
What I would not do is murder for ‘them’.10 Reply
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11 mothanks
now you got the song stuck in my head lol11 Reply- 11 mo
Lol sorry
I won't degrade myself for love.
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As a pro relationship coach, helping folks navigate love's sweet chaos is totally my jam! 💕 I'm with you on not going all ''Romeo and Juliet'' here. Love should lift us up, not bury us in overwhelming sacrifices. Keep your heart open, but your boundaries too; the healthiest relationships are built on mutual respect without the need for extreme gestures!
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11 moHmmmm... so you won't kill for love.
Let's say you had a weapon and knew how to use it. Home invasion or mass shooting at a restaurant. The shooter just took out a family member. Now he's reloading in front of you. You can stop it. You would sit there and let him gun down your kids, your husband, your siblings, your parents? You wouldn't open up that guy's head like a ripe watermelon? I would. With no feeling of remorse.
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Let me rephrase I won't kill for someone I love if it's not out of self defense like you explained here. Of course if it was something like that I would kill in a heartbeat. But I'm not killing innocent people is what I'm saying.
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Clarity is always good. There are some people who won't do it.
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11 moIf you are referring to the feeling of infatuation we sometimes feel when we meet someone new. All of a sudden you're making out at the dinner table etc. That never lasts since it's impossible once you get to know each other longer. I'm not sure what love is. The notion we have now is a hollywood fable that didn't exist until medieval times when the crusade were in full swing and Christians were killing everyone to demonstrate the love of Jesus. The hangers on and the not quite ready to go hung around the south of France & seduced the wives and fiances while their SO was killing everyone. Then we had a second pope in Avignon & a 3rd one in Naples to confuse situation.
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u 11 moI would do anything for love... but I won't do THAT...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/ElJLYpMB1OIBut then again, how do you know when it's love anyway?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/MN0lf_lT9EQ10 Reply No gay stuff like pegging, I might be willing to kill for love, if we talk about protection.
10 Reply662 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I won't break my principles or my beliefs. I won't betray who I am for anyone. If I do that, how could I live with myself knowing I was so easily swayed? Take me for who I really am and I take you for you. As long as we are always trying'to be better versions of our selves. If not then I'd rather be single. I'm too old to play games anymore.
10 ReplyI would do anything for loveI know it's true and that's a factI would do anything for loveAnd there'll never be no turning backBut I'll never do it better than I do it with youSo long, so longAnd I would do anything for loveOh, I would do anything for loveI would do anything for love but I won't do thatI won't do that
10 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I would so... I am very ride or die person. If I love someone nothing else really matters. But ya know I have to love them meaning they aren't gonna be that crazy. Though I do like some crazy.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)11 moChange who I am at my core.
Relationship require give and take. That's not what I'm talking about. When you meet me you either accept who and what I am or you don't. Of course I'll adapt who I am to our relationship. But I'm NOT becoming a completely different person for ANYONE. So either she accepts that, or she can go away right now.
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11 mo“For the ones I love, I will do great and terrible things” I have a shirt that says this and it’s true. The truth…. I will kill for the ones I love without thinking twice about it
10 Reply 1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I would do anything for love, but I won't do that...
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Haha nice!
11 moI’ll kill no one for love. You shouldn’t have to fight for love… it should come natural if two people belong together
10 Reply542 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Go against my values after I had made it clear these were my values and then the "test" to see how far she could push me would put me off her.
10 Reply457 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I will never change who I am just for love. Take me the way I am or leave me alone. I will listen to advise but in the end I'm decider myself what I'm going to do with that advise.
10 Reply9.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I would never give up on friends or my music for anything, including love.
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11 moWhat kind of love?
I'd kill to protect the lives of my kids if that was the only way
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11 moBetray my principles. Anyone who asks you to doesn’t love you.
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11 moI will not have kids. I'm my first priority and do not want to alter my body. 🙂
10 Reply 7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I cannot think of anything if the conditions were right.
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11 mo1. Murder
2. Cheat on a woman for another.
3. Be a non-Christian
4. Fornicate
5. Drink Alcohol10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I won't kill a child. An adult on the other hand, I just hope it doesn't have to come to that, for their sake.
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m 11 moyou know...
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Haha Nickelback
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I'm not going to their concerts... anything, but that
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Lol Nickelback is not the end of the world lol
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I think I could kill... if someone wanted to kill the ones I love
I mean, if that's the only way to save them... - 11 mo
Oh yeah I just meant if they wanted me to kill someone for them. Not if someone wanted to kill the ones I loved. That's different and totally reasonable.
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Sorry I should have clarified.
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how about... someone did something so horrible and terrible to them, like.. life changing situation, and not for the best
and then, authorities let them go... no true justice is served, just a little slap on the wrist, and they're out there again... as a threat, and very much a worry
and then they say " they should not be out there, they should just not be out there and able to do the same to me, to others... it should not happen again..."
then what... would you put your mask on, tie up your heart and soul and seek... justice, true justice... with your means and hands - 11 mo
Yes I think I would for the ones that I love.
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You know I love my Batman!
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11 moIf i had to choose between love and a turkey sandwich, I'm taking the sandwich every time
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11 moI won't kill for love and o won't compromise my values
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11 mostick my tongue inside a man's asshole
20 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I won't trust him 100%!
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11 moCompromise who I am
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11 moI won't Trust anymore!
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11 moThere isn't anything I wouldn't do for love. Id cave in a babies skull with a golf club for love
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11 moAnything I don't want to do.
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11 moGet a circumcision
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11 moWouldn't change my goals or personality for love
10 ReplyNothing criminal
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would you eat a man's asshole for love
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Never
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11 moKiss her ass for any reason.
10 Reply I won’t take any kind of abuse.
10 ReplyJump off a cliff.
10 ReplyPoop...
10 Reply495 opinions shared on Relationships topic. That.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)11 moForce
10 ReplyI won’t do that.
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11 moanything, ”love” isn't worth it
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11 moAnal lol 😆
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11 moEat @$$
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