Do you think "falling in love while married" is possible?

[wolverin38]

[avery58]

Yeah, only for cheaters. How do people put themselves in the position for this to happen in the first place? That's why I always thought that it's a stupid idea to make new friends of the opposite sex once married. The respect for your partner should always come first, and if you're having problems with them then counseling or divorce.

[Tomriiissss]

This is disgusting 🤢 Falling in love with someone else while you have a spouse is pure whoredom.

[slatyb]

Falling in love is not a choice, it just happens. Pursuing that person is a choice.

[Tomriiissss]

If a heart belongs to someone, it can't love someone else. 😶

[Summeroflove]

If there isn’t genuine love between spouses absolutely. Whether that love was lost or never there is another story but unfortunately it happens more then most people want to think it does.

[OlderAndWiser]

Your question is extremely ambiguous. Are you asking about getting married first, then falling in love with your spouse? Or being married and falling in love with someone else?

[wolverin38]

Second

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never had that experience, and I suspect that I would end the marriage if I felt my heart was leading me elsewhere, but. . . as a husband, I am as devoted to my wife as I expect her to be towards me, and I am not looking for another woman and not spending time with other women. But other people in other marriages. . . especially if there was a prolonged period of physical separation. . . I could imagine it happening. Still, if that can happen, I would wonder if they ever truly loved their spouse.

[AI Opinion]

Love is a curious thing, isn’t it? Falling in love while married is definitely possible. Sometimes hearts do unexpected things. It’s important to remember that relationships can get complex, and feelings can shift. This situation requires honest communication and self-reflection. Remember, emotional connections have to be handled with care. Stay true to your commitments, and if your heart starts playing tricks on you, maybe it's time for a good chat with your partner to make sure everyone’s on the same page. 😊💕

[Finchie40]

It’s possible but it means you don’t love your spouse if you are allowing yourself to invest into someone else behind your spouses back. So the right thing to do is end your marriage with your spouse and then invest your time into that other person

[alli-112]

I mean if you've fallen out of love with your current partner, or I guess if you're poly (though I don't know much about that). I'd say that most people who are in love with their current partner won't fall in love with someone else at the same time. But married is different than in love unfortunately.

[Nikki1989]

Of course, but you can love many people at the same time, it is just different kinds of loving.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Yes, very much so. It's wonderful when it's done with your spouse.

[slatyb]

absolutely. It's happened to me, but my crush is an ocean away and much younger, not happening.

[Flower7]

You met her online?

Also, do you have less feelings for your wife now that someone else has your attention?

[slatyb]

@Flower7 No, I don't, and I'm not going to leave her.

[Abbycado]

Probably for dirty cheaters

[Dongie]

Naturally, it happens all the time.

[Anonymous]

The heart wants what it wants.

[Anonymous]

Only for cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Yes I’ve done it.

[WonderingManII]

Yes.