Question about slight incompatibility in bed?

[IAMRIA]

If you’re in a good relationship for the past few years but there are few things you really love doing, but they’re just not into it, would you consider leaving them?

[Finchie40]

Depends on what it is that they aren’t fulfilling me on especially if they aren’t willing to compromise with me on it. so yes I have dumped girls’ because they weren’t willing to compromise with me and fulfill my wants and desires , that made intimacy and affection all about themselves and completely ignored my feels and wants all together , I will only stay in a relationship with a girl that comes pretty damn close to my sexual wants and desires , that doesn’t hesitate to please me the same way I don’t hesitate to please her. Now if her desire is for her to hurt me in anyways , she’s shit out of luck if she wants to punch me in the face while riding me , now if she wants playful abuse then I’m fine with that otherwise my ass doesn’t want to be bruised up badly and bleeding just for sex lol

[Orion84]

It really depends on what it is they don't like doing.

Most things, I could probably overlook, and still be happy. It would probably take something pretty big for me to consider it a dealbreaker for our relationship.

Just as an example, I had a girlfriend, years ago, who thought cunnilingus was just "the grossest thing ever," but I really enjoyed doing it. I was disappointed that she never wanted it, but it wasn't enough for me to end the relationship.

Now, if I met a girl that refused to do anything other than missionary, I might consider that a dealbreaker, if only because never getting to do another position would actually really suck. Again, just as an example.

[itsannalee]

Nope, i really like wearing sleeveless top but my man doesn’t like it. He even doesn’t allow me to wearing that for just staying in the balcony and i have no problem with that.


Or the biggest problem is i am morning bird and he is night owl, i sleep mostly around 10 and wake up at 7 am, and he sleeps at 3am and wake up around 11pm, he doesn’t like me wake up early or cooking in the morning, and yeah i prefer go out in the morning walking and buy our breakfast everyday to let him sleeps peacefully.

[IAMRIA]

Haha I actually meant like different sex desires haha

[itsannalee]

Ahhh 😆😆😆

Maybe my ex, i love oral sex and he isn’t into it. But I wasn’t leaving him because of that.

[IAMRIA]

So you don’t care about it?

[itsannalee]

As long as they have their other way to please me, I wouldn’t care

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you navigate the relationship waters! If your connection is sailing smoothly but there's a little compatibility hiccup in the bedroom, don't jump ship just yet. Communication is your best friend here 😉. Share your desires and curiosities in a fun and open way—no pressure, just exploration. Sometimes a little compromise or some creative thinking can spice things up and deepen your bond. Remember, every relationship has its quirks! Keep the love alive and keep talking 🌟💑.

[Berethor]

As long as there is sex it don't matter that much, I can comprise on most things.

[Anonymous]

No. It’s something that you have to discuss with them and hopefully work it out.

[IAMRIA]

Right. For sure. Communication and understanding of the problem is the first step. But again in a situation where just one doesn't like some of the things

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah if u need to DM u can

[Pterodon]

Yes I would especially if it was totally harmless

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I never had sex.