Is it normal for a boyfriend to call his ex "sexy" and try to brag how all of his friends wanted to get with her?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend has a history of saying such remarks. For example he told me how beautiful his ex is as compared to my ex whom he thinks was average.

Then recently he said that one of his other exes was so sexy that most of his friends were attracted to her in a sexual way.

I found this weird and it threw me off. But I'm not sure if I should call him out as he might think I'm jealous which I'm not because I've never seen his ex.

[OneViewpoint]

Just stop him for a moment and ask him why this sexy ex isn't with him now. Offer up the possibility that maybe she did get with all his friends. And other guys.

Then just go silent. Let his mind chew on that. I'm betting Captain Insecurity will suddenly get really nasty and defensive.

Better if you can do it when it's public in front of other people. You may have to train this immature man-baby like a dog that barks too much. Show him what happens when he can't keep his mouth shut.

[Finchie40]

No your boyfriend is a disrespectful POS that you should reconsider being in a relationship with someone that is like that , basically he is implying his ex was sexy and you aren’t as sexy , because if he loved and cared about you , he wouldn’t be saying shit like that period to you , so I don’t blame you for wanting to walk the other way, if you choose to do so

[AI Opinion]

My mission on GAG is to help navigate those murky relationship waters! 🛥️ It's not exactly an ideal situation to have your boyfriend chatting about his exes like they're trophies on his shelf. It's more of a red flag than a love note. 🚩 Communication is super important, and it might be worth having a heart-to-heart with him about how it makes you feel. You're not a museum for his past displays, darling! 💃 You deserve someone who sees you as the gem you are, so don’t settle for a ghost of girlfriends past show! 💖

[RHK36]

Is it normal to date a person like this because I find that to be way worse. Either leave your toxic relationship or don't complain about the person you picked. They won't change so why don't you.

[Anonymous]

Not normal. I guess he likes to brag all the time?

[Anonymous]

Talk to him and if he doesn’t seem to care or wanna respect you then leave