Because he’s immature. Don’t let it bother you... or better yet, LEAVE! My new guy tells me sometimes that a girl will hit him up here or there, and I’ll just laugh about it and say “oh, go get her ;)”. But, this is because 1) i trust him, and i don’t think he’d tell me about it if it was something insidious on his end, and 2) if he wants to leave me/cheat, then fine. I’m a lovely lady and i can find a new man.
It took me a long time to find this confidence (it actually took getting cheated on by my latest ex to gain more confidence, ironically). My last 2 exes did this to me a lot, and it made me feel badly inside. But, now me and my new guy sometimes talk about when people hit on us. We don’t get jealous because it’s funny to both of us, and we know we are each other’s number 1. Also, if my guy wants to text that girl - that’s okay, i know that the darkness always comes to light :)
Hold your head up girl, you are soooo valuable!
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I've been with a someone like this. Insecure and immature.
His fantasy: The girls want him, he's alpha male
Reality: These girls would only see him as friendzone material (if that even... he's more likely to be the butt of their jokes)
I got rid of it in the end. He's still single 7yrs later.
He probably feels like you don't want him, and he's trying to make you jealous so that you do. Or, he's simply insecure. If you want him to stop, show him you care and simply tell him you don't like it as soon as he does it. Not after the third or fourth time, but right away. That way he isn't under the impression that it's ok if he doesn't do it too often, but instead realizes you're not ok with it at all. In other words, you're enabling the behavior if you allow it in any capacity.
He wants to make you feel inadequate and feel like you are lucky to be his girlfriend. The truth is the opposite - you are very unlucky because his behaviour will worsen.
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Mmm it happens that when u are in love... ur deepest insecurities that u though u had it in control.. it starts to scream at u
And control u
Thats when people get clingy, needy, resentful, cold, mean
Maybe thata whats happening to him
I haven't deal with that kind of situation, but my opinion
Is maybe reasure him
Something like
I dont like u for what u have, ur appearance, ur money, ur titles
I dont like u for ur past, or future
I like u now bc ur here with me, bc ur caring for me, sharing ur time and letting me be beside u... growing together to be better than tomorrow
Mmm that its ok to get hurt by the person u love sometimes ... bc it is worth the wait and fix
Though dont know if guys will find this too emotional and cheesyHe’s insecure af with you, and he knows you’re a very valuable person. My ex did the exact same thing. Get rid of him and find someone who wants to make you happy and feel secure because they are themselves.
there's a few possible reasons... He feels that he isn't in your league and if he makes himself seem like other women desire him then you'll be less likely to leave. Or maybe he likes you but isn't ready to settle down and is hoping one day you'll give him the go ahead go hit it "pass"
He probably WANTS to make you jealous. That’s how me ex was a lot of the time — he admitted it once. But, honestly, he did it because of his own insecurities and not because he didn’t love me
Few reasons:
He wants you to be jealous
(Because then you will do more to be still attractive fir him)
He wants to play this silly game with you
He wants to apear as alphamale for you.I've had someone like this before it sucks i know. he's trying to make u jealous thats his goal. if i were u id tell him to stop or go out the door to them hoes he keeps talking about because he's just going to keep bringing u down
He sounds like he has a confidence issue and wants to feel he is important
Highly possible he might be a narcissist. Watch for more sign and then decide
Because he believes you are some out of his league that he need to keep your confidence down some he can keep you
Just joke with him about all the guys that hit you up on social media and add the fact that they're so much bigger than himk
He's insecure & is probably trying to make you jealous.
It's cause he is a dick or too insecure about himself or really having a hard time figuring out how did he get you
He shouldn't be saying that to you he should only have eyes for you
becuse he is a fucking child that loves playing off your emotions. don't give in
Because he is an immature child.
He is a bad boyfriend dump him.
He could be trying to make you jealous
He wants you to be jealous for some dumb reason
he is making u jealous
He is insecure.
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