Guys, have you ever spanked your girl during or after an argument?

[Anonymous]

You ever spanked your girl just because?

The other day I was really in a bad mood. Tired after work, and a lot of things on my mind. Noticed that my hubby didn't do one of his chores. We don't have kids. If I cook, he does the dishes.. And so on. Anyway seeing that the chore wasn't done, I started an argument with him. He was keep repeating that the day isn't over and that it's plenty of time for him to accomplish it. I wasn't having it. I throwed a hairbrush to his direction. Went flying near his shoulder. He picked it up, and then he dragged me to the sofa. Next, I was over his knees, getting a spanking with the hairbrush. I struggled to get up, but there was no way. I told him to stop because it's ridiculous. The hits weren't so hard but the sting and also the shame I felt build up. I just laid there and started to cry, telling him that I'm sorry. He immediately noticed and stopped. He also apologized and said this was somehow needed because now I'm calm.
The thing is he never did that before, he always tried to reason with me by talking. I never listened. I was always in my head, stubborn. Now I see him in a different light. I need that in my life. From time to time. Reset. The question is:
How do I tell him? I don't want to sound like a weird person.

[Finchie40]

I dated a few girls’ ’ that were like you , that actually liked when I put her over my lap and spanked her for being out of control, I wouldn’t spank her hard but just enough to let her know that she is being out of control and I held her down until she said she was sorry. , it would usually turn to sex right after. So the truth is you are an submissive girl , which I love submissive girls’ that like being with a man she can look up to that doesn’t take her shit lol Subconsciously you like being dominated by your man , so nothing wrong with it , considering most men love being dominate to a girl that he loves and cares about. So if you were my girl , I would spank you to for being out of control

[Anonymous]

No, not for an actual argument. She gets spanked or paddled during sex and foreplay all the time, but it's because she enjoys it and it gets her off, not because I'm angry with her.

[Asker]

Now you got me thinking. Better to have that only in the bedroom lol. No paddle tho. Had the hairbrush and it absolutely stings. Maybe only hand feels better

[Opinion Owner]

Don't knock the paddle until you've tried it. I spanked her with my hand for years and I knew she liked it, but it occurred to me last year she might like a paddle. She loved it so much I ordered a riding crop. She likes that one too, but the paddle is her favorite. It's apparently the right balance between weight and sting. Th riding crop has a longer handle but a smaller "paddle" and it's good for other areas besides her butt.

[EmmaMary]

If that were ever to happen, if would definitely be the very last thing my husband ever did to me.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

If a man did this to me , I’d be the happiest woman on earth , but that’s just me

[Asker]

Why? It impacts your mind? A man doing that to you would calm or help you somehow?
I'm also trying to understand how it works and why on earth did I like that.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s hot tbh

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[AI Opinion]

Diving in here like a love expert! 💘 Being upfront in any relationship is key, and it sounds like you're exploring some new dynamics. A light-hearted, perhaps flirty conversation with your hubby is the perfect approach. Next date night, playfully bring up how the spanking shifted your perspective and admit it helped calm the storm. Be sure to emphasize trust and boundaries while keeping the vibe open, after all, it's about mutual respect and understanding. Keep communicating and keep that spark alive! 🌟

[Arcadian222]

Spanked playfully. Never abusively or in/around an argument.

[TheWombRaider]

Sounds like it's your fantasy

[Jeff51]

No. I'm a grown up.

[Danny_dan92]

Nah.