Recently I received a spanking from my ex. No. We can't stop seeing eachother because we are working together and even after work we attend some meetings or events together. I guess we still love eachother. Yesterday I had a party at my place and I invited all my coworkers. I tried to make him jealous by inviting a guy I know he just can't stand. I purposely let that man hug me and flirt with me just to annoy my ex. He was really mad, indeed. So he pulled me aside and whispered "i know your game and when everyone leaves I'm going to bend you over my knee and spank you." I laughed and I acted like that it's a joke. He was drunk so I didn't take him seriously. That and also he never hit me before. Never knew him as a believer in corporal punishment. So after my party was over.. indeed he kept his word. I was over his knee in no time. It hurt but I didn't really struggle to escape. I was kinda shocked, then excited. I told him to stop and I whimpered in protest. He did stop when I was already crying and telling him.. I never received such a treatment before. We made love like never before.
We are back together due to an odd incident. I am still trying to understand if I really like this new side of him.
That's how I started my "spanking career." In high school, I was at a band party, and people were drinking, dancing, etc. I was sitting in a room with a few other people, and one of the girls keeps poking me. The first couple of times, I brushed it off, but then I told her to stop. Of course, she didn't stop. I was getting frustrated, and I'd only really started standing up for myself a couple of years before, so while my confidence had grown a whole lot, it still wasn't incredibly high then. But she kept poking, and ignoring me when I told her to stop.
Finally, I got irritated, and somehow, my mouth opened and all on its own, it said "if you do that again, I'm going to pull you over my lap and spank your ass red." Up until that point, I don't think I'd even THOUGHT about doing this, so I was as shocked as everyone else at the words I had just spoke. Of course, the people in the room all went "ooooooooo!", so now I knew I had to go through with it, and when she poked me again, I did just that - to the total shock of everyone in the room, myself included.
Afterwards, due to my limited confidence, I was kind of expecting people, especially the other girls, to be all bent out of shape about it and make a big deal about it - but no one said a thing, and some of them had expressions on their faces that I couldn't read or understand at the time, but today would easily recognize as sexual arousal.
At the next party, a different girl did something annoying (I can't even remember what), and then asked "oh, are you going to spank me too?" I spanked 2 or 3 girls at THAT party, and it became a thing I was known for, and usually happened after that, and it was probably the third girl before I really put the sexuality together with the spanking (yes, I was slow on that one - I was still overcoming my upbringing).
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Anonymous
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My wife actually has requested that I spank her and tell her that she has been a bad girl as she tell me she is sorry daddy. I must honest and say that it at first freaked me out, since I was a bit concerned about where this could be heading. However, if that is what she wants, well there is no way in hell I'm not going to provide her with something she may go elsewhere for. I know she never would... but still... best not chance it. So, yes I have spanked a girl, my wife, upon request.
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Anonymous
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My husband spanks me. I've had boyfriends do it too... perhaps bc I pushed them to a point where they were so irritated at me they felt I deserved it? Anyway, it happens. It's more common than you think. And when people argue or if you do things to piss them off on purpose they will... if you were a guy they'd probably punch you or if they didn't want to be with you, they'd leave... so then usually you get spanked... or so it's been my experience
yeah i’ve been spanked before but never in a way of punishment. my partner would just spank me and grab my booty which feels good. As long as you are okay with him spanking you, as long as it doesn’t turn into anything else. i like his authority tho. when men step up and claim me as their women i get turned on.
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Well in the past (when we were in a relationship).. he used to give me light love taps. But this was completely different. I found it outraugeous to believe he could actually do it. In the end.. I couldn't deny the fact that I liked how he took attitude on the matter.. By making him jealous I triggered an unexpected reaction.. but like you said: He claimed me as his woman and that proved me he actually loves me.
